Memorials

Susan “Sue” Diane Griffin Wendel
Beloved wife, mother, grandmother, and friend

Sue Griffin Wendel, 63, died Friday, October 11 at Regions Hospital surrounded by her family, including her grandchildren.

Sue was born November 11, 1960 in Ames, Iowa to Mary Jo McDowell and Alan Griffin. Sue had three sisters, Julie, Steph, and Connie. She spent the majority of her childhood in Iowa before moving to Lincoln, Nebraska to finish out her high school diploma.

Sue moved to Minnesota where she had one child, Kelsey, her pride and joy. After separating from her first husband, she met the love of her life, her best friend and partner in crime Bradley (Brad) James Wendel. Brad brought with him three more children and they created a patchwork family that was stitched together with the love and joy that Sue and Brad shared together.

Sue worked at UnitedHealth Group for over 20 years and built deep friendships with so many people she met along the way. That’s likely one of the things that most people will take with them about Sue. She was able to make friends anywhere. She was a vibrant, vivacious, deeply loving person who you could always count on for a smile and an extra long hug.

Sue loved adventures with her family but most of all she loved spending time with her grandchildren! She also enjoyed playing pickleball with her friends, scuba diving (but only in warm water), water skiing on Deer Lake and Grindstone Lake, enjoying a good glass of wine, and you could always find her in the front row dancing to live music.

Sue is survived and deeply missed by her husband Brad, her daughter Kelsey (Andy), her three sons Eric (Kristine), David (Ashlee), Thomas, her five grandchildren Ellis, Sophia, Leon, Rosie, and Owen; as well as her mother Mary Jo, and two of her sisters Stephanie and Connie, and her great uncle Charles (Chuck) Griffin.

Sue was preceded in death by her father, Alan, her sister, Julie, and many many beloved friends.

Kelli Danielle Si, aged 45 years, joined her Lord and Savior on October 22, 2024. She was born on August 29, 1979, in Adrian, Michigan, to Daniel VanValkenburg and Stacy Woerner. She was a proud resident of Ann Arbor, Michigan, and most recently Calabasas, California. She graduated from the University of Michigan and worked as a pediatric cardiac ICU nurse at the University of Michigan C.S. Mott Children’s Hospital before devoting all of her time to taking care of her young family. She is survived by her husband, Ming; their sons Jacob, Caleb, and Benjamin; a younger brother, Chad VanValkenburg; an older sister, Holli Clewis; a younger sister, Alaina Ellison; and many nieces, nephews, and cousins. Kelli was a devout Christian and brought brightness, comfort, and joy to those around her, whether it be family, friends, patients, or strangers. She held the regard of others ahead of her own, even in times of her own illness.

Kelli leaves us with:

"Well, I guess this is where my earthly journey ends, but what an incredible ride it has been! I've been blessed to raise my three amazing sons, even though this wasn't part of the plan I had originally had in mind. God, however, had His own way of guiding me, and I wouldn't trade a single moment I've spent with my family for anything. They have been my world - my biggest source of joy and purpose."

"I found my faith strengthened at Grace Bible Church in Ann Abor and Calvary Community Church in Westlake Village. It has been my mission to share the love of Jesus with everyone around me. I hope I've inspired others to follow Him, to feel His grace as deeply as I have. "

"One of the most important lessons I've learned and want to pass on comes from Matthew 6:1-4:

'When you give to the poor, don't let your left hand know what your right hand is doing.'

'Give your contributions privately. Your Father sees what you do in private. He will reward you.'

"Our good deeds should be a natural part of our daily lives, not grand, attention-seeking acts. It's not about recognition from others - it's about living a life that pleases God, where kindness and generosity for quietly and consistently."

"My greatest treasures are the memories made with family and friends. From traveling to national parks, being in nature and around all of God's animals, playing games with my mom and siblings, beach time with my nieces and nephews, and listening to my boys play with their cousins, those simple moments brought me more joy than words can express. I hope you all remember the good times, the laughter, and how much I loved each and every one of you."

To my friends and family, thank you for standing by me, supporting me, and loving me through it all. Holli and Alaina, you've been my rocks - you always knew just what I needed even when I didn't. Chad, please keep my plants alive, you have a gift for this-you need to share it with the world. Ming, I know I wasn't always easy to love through the pain, but I'm so grateful for you. Thank you for your patience and for always fighting to keep me here, even when it was hard for me to let you. Please keep hugging our boys every day."

"In my memory, please plant a tree or a rose bush instead of sending flowers. If you feel inclined, you can also contribute to finding a cure for metastatic breast cancer. Stage IV has no cure, but maybe one day, with enough support, we'll change that."

Carol Smith was a loved mother, wife, and friend to many. She was an active supporter of Metavivor, supported the Susan G Komen foundation as a board member, and was an avid patient advocate, receiving the Jones-Hendryx Forever Fighter Award in 2019.

We love you all the time, no matter what.

Peggy Bennett of Crystal, MN passed away on March 27, 2010. After nearly ten years of battling breast cancer, Peggy is at peace now. She will be missed and forever in the hearts of her loving husband Harvey Bennett; her children, Kelly Bennett and Nichole (Rich) Gerszewski; her grandchildren, Katelin & Joseph Bennett and Bennett & Brody Gerszewski; and countless family and friends.

Andrea Flagg Thomson
August 14, 1952 – October 23, 2019

Andrea Flagg Thomson , 67, of Wolfeboro, NH passed away surrounded by her loving family on October 23, 2019 at Dartmouth Hitchcock Medical Center in Lebanon, NH after a courageous battle against breast cancer that began in 1992.

She was married to Robb Thomson for 44 years and was the devoted and loving mother of three daughters, Christine, Kimberly and Kelly.

Born in Houlton, Maine in 1952, Andrea (Andie) moved with her brother Steve and parents, Calvin and Verna Flagg to Wolfeboro, NH in 1961. A graduate of Kingswood High School, she attended the Thompson School in UNH and Garland Junior College in Boston. She was assistant manager at the Nordic Skier before marrying Robb in 1975.

As a cancer survivor, Andie was a source of inspiration, who reached out with encouragement and hope to others who faced the plight of this disease. She demonstrated strength and determination and lived life on her terms.

Her life was defined by love. Andie loved her grandchildren and enjoyed “glamping” with them and making homemade presents. She loved traveling across the country to “SEEUSA” with Robb in their RV. She loved sewing, baking, cross-country skiing, and capturing life’s beauty through her photography. Andie was blessed with an abundance of energy and creativity that she used to make lasting memories for everyone she met.

Andie is survived by her beloved husband, Robb, and daughters Christine Anderson and her husband Bryan and their children, Connor, Molly and Evan; Kimberly Coughlin and her husband Adam and their children, Calvin, Ava and Simon; and Kelly Thomson. Andie is also survived by her parents Calvin and Verna Flagg and her brother Steve Flagg and his wife Beth and their children JC and Micaela.

Barbara Wilkins Dyke, 71, of Claremont NH, passed away on July 2nd at her home surrounded by her loving family, after a courageous battle with Metastatic Breast Cancer.

Barbara was born on May 16th, 1953 to Howard and Florence Wilkins of Boston, Massachusetts. Barbara graduated from Reading High School in 1971, and went on to earn a Bachelors in Nursing at University of New Hampshire. After graduation she got her first job working in Pediatrics at Mary Hitchcock Hospital, kickstarting a nearly 30-year career in healthcare.

As a child, she spent her summer months on Lake Morey. Her parents had a cottage there and Barbara spent many happy years swimming, waterskiing, and forming lifelong friendships.

Barbara married James Robert Dyke of Orford, NH, where they made a home and went on to have 2 children, Stefanie Gulick and Cynthia Bemis. There she began her career as the Orford School Nurse. She loved the students and her colleagues and felt so fortunate to be there for her daughters through High School. Barbara was very involved with the school through the years. She was an advisor for the class of ’95; an Odyssey of the Mind coach, and encouraged the music teacher to weave The Beatles into the school concerts. She made so many treasured memories and friendships from her years at the school that lasted a lifetime.

After spending 15 years in her 2nd career at King Arthur Flour she finally retired and spent her time enjoying life with her partner Steve; gardening, watching NASCAR, and hosting their annual 4th of July extravaganza. When she wasn’t home, she spent time traveling with her daughters and grandchildren to York Beach, Boston, Celtics games, and Disney…her favorite place on earth. She loved her family so much and fought hard to stay with us as long she could, living life to the fullest, knowing each day was a blessing.

Barbara was the source of strength and love for her family. Diagnosed with Breast Cancer in 2016, and in 2018 with MBC, she never let that define how she lived. She was a true inspiration to us all, and provided unconditional support to all those who fought this battle alongside her and continue to fight today. She truly encompassed the lyrics, All you need is Love, and encouraged everyone she met to live by them.
Barbara was predeceased by her parents Howard and Florence Wilkins, sister Beverly Wilkins, and son-in-law Jordan Price Bemis. She is survived by her long-time partner Steven Walker, daughters Cynthia Bemis; Stefanie Gulick and her husband Shaun Gulick, grandchildren Liam Brooks, Ruth Brooks and Caleb Gulick, and a large extended family who loved her dearly.

Ann Hallstrom Clark, a loving wife, mother, sister, and grandmother, passed away peacefully on July 14th, 2024. Born on January 5th, 1961, in Miami, FL, Ann was the beloved daughter of Gwendolyn and William Hallstrom.

Ann leaves behind a legacy of love and joy, survived by her adoring husband of 38 years, David (Dave) Clark; her beloved children, William (Billy) Clark and his wife Danielle, and Kendall (Clark) Ellison and her husband Ryan; her treasured grandchildren, Carter, Rhett, Paige, and Baker; and her loving brother, William (Will) Hallstrom and his wife Kathy Amezola.

A graduate of Florida State University, Ann dedicated her career to education. She was a passionate and loving educator in Palm Beach County for 35 years, ultimately serving as both a District Administrator and a Principal of three different schools, where she served the community and mentored countless teachers and educators. Her impact on the lives of thousands of students will be remembered and cherished by all who knew her.

Ann married the love of her life, Dave, on December 28th, 1985. Together, they built a beautiful life filled with love, laughter, and cherished memories. Ann had a zest for life that was evident in everything she did. She loved vacationing in Sanibel, sipping key lime martinis, and found joy in the fun passion of flower arranging. She also cherished spending summers in the mountains in Beech Mountain, NC. Above all, Ann treasured spending time with her family, friends, and especially her grandchildren.

In 2018, Ann was diagnosed with stage IV breast cancer, beginning a courageous battle that lasted over six years. Throughout her journey, she faced numerous surgeries and treatments with unwavering determination and grace. Ann's strength was a source of inspiration to everyone around her, and she brought joy to fellow patients and medical staff alike. Despite the challenges, she continued to cherish every moment with her family and friends, savoring the love and support that surrounded her. Ann's legacy of resilience and joy will forever be remembered by all who were fortunate to know her.

Wendy Michelle passed away on July 5 2024 at the young age of 54. Wendy was an amazing mother, grandmother, sister and friend. She is survived by her daughter Ineke (31), her daughter Natasha (29),sister Heather, her granddaughter sage and her devoted partner Bill. Sage was the light of her life. The special bond between the two will remain unmatched. Her daughters were main pillars in her life and will forever try to continue support of breast cancer research. Bill was Wendy’s biggest cheerleader and advocate.

Wendy was diagnosed with stage 4 metastatic breast cancer in 2021. Her journey was strenuous, heartbreaking but inspirational to say the least. Wendy took on the challenge with grace; she never complained and fought every day. She leaned on her faith in God every second.

Wendy’s absence is felt by everyone who knew her. Her determination and quick wit will be missed every day.

Abigail Brooks Steelhammer, lovingly known as Abby, passed away on January 16, 2024, at the age of 54. She was born on October 7 and was a beloved daughter, mother, sister, aunt, and friend. She is survived by her daughter, Gracie Brooks Steelhammer, whom she adored and cherished and Abby's memory will forever be treasured by her family. Abby's loyal companion, her dog Doolie, brought her immense joy and comfort throughout her life.

Abby was a lifelong learner and achieved numerous academic accomplishments. She held a Bachelor of Arts degree, as well as certifications as a Registered Nurse, Master of Business Administration, and Master of Health Administration. Abby took great pride in her career as a nurse and healthcare administrator, where she made a significant impact on the lives of others. In her free time, Abby found solace in the beauty of nature. She loved spending time at the beach and the lake, where she could unwind and appreciate the serenity of the water. She found great joy in watching her daughter swim and engage in various activities. She also had a deep affection for animals and enjoyed feeding birds, bunnies, and deer. She also had a love for flowers and plants and believed that these vibrant blooms symbolized the beauty of life. Abby cherished her time with family and friends, especially when accompanied by a glass of wine. She valued the connections she made and the memories created during these moments.

In early 2022, Abby received the devastating diagnosis of Stage 4 metastatic breast cancer. Despite the challenges she faced, Abby chose to remain positive and embarked on a journey of self-discovery. Her unwavering faith, boundless hope, and indomitable courage were evident as she fought the good fight. Abby's absence leaves a void in the hearts of all who knew her. However, her loved ones are left with cherished memories and heartwarming stories that will forever keep her spirit alive.

Lauren Allyson Tye lost her fight against metastatic breast cancer on April 21, 2024, she was 40 years old. Lauren was a beloved Wife, Mother, Daughter, Auntie and friend. She is survived by her husband Trevor, Son Own, Daughter Alyssa, Sister Erin, Mother Carol and a number of loving family members.

Lauren's journey started on June 3rd, 1983 born to Carol Adams and George Maxwell in Calgary. After a few short years Carol moved to Nova Scotia with Lauren and her sister Erin. There she met several really good friends especially Sarah who was like a sister to her.

At the age of 12 Carol moved the family back to Calgary where Lauren met Alice and several more friends where they quickly bonded over their love of the backstreet boys and getting into mischief as teenage girls do.

Carol then moved the family to St. Albert. Lauren attended Paul Kane High School and got a job at the movie theatre in St. Albert where she met Aly and they became fast friends. While Lauren was at Grant Macewan she was getting tutoring on statistics; and met Trevor at a bus stop, and after a few phone calls they had their first date in November going to Boston Pizza, stopping for coffee/hot chocolate and watching a movie.

Shortly after a year they moved in together into their first apartment in downtown Edmonton with her close friend Alice from Calgary. They then moved to North east Edmonton, where they got engaged, married and eventually bought a townhouse in Grandin. Lauren, the ever adventurer, planned a trip to Hawaii; which was one of our most cherished and memorable trips. After four short years Owen our first was born in 2012 and Alyssa then in 2014.

Lauren's dad and step-dad were diagnosed with brain cancer in 2017 and died in 2018. In 2017 Lauren was diagnosed with breast cancer and fought with it for 7 long years while being the best mother she could be to Owen and Alyssa. In 2019 Trevor and Lauren bought their home on Lambert Cres and Lauren wanted to make memories and give the kids the best childhood she could. She was always planning trips to the mountains, little vacations, as much as she could pack into the year as she could.

At the end of September 2023 Lauren started feeling more ill, was sleeping more and more and eating less. It was difficult for her to do many of the things she enjoyed like outings, visits from her family, friends and events like family dinners for birthdays and holidays. After Easter in 2024, Lauren took a turn for the worse, we both could tell the Chemo was not working at all. At her last appointment at the cross on April 16 the doctors told Lauren and Trevor that she had very little time left, that it would be a matter of weeks. Those weeks turned to days, days turned to hours, hours turned to minutes, minutes became precious few seconds.

On Saturday April 20, 2024 in the afternoon Lauren became unresponsive.

The EMS were dispatched to their house, they did what they could for her, but she was unresponsive. They told Trevor and his sisters, Jaylene and Heather, that she would likely be gone in the next 24 hours. About 30 minutes after the EMS left Lauren came back for a short time. She told her children she loved them, they had yorkshire pudding and ice cream for dinner then the kids and the dog left for their grandparents, Carol and Tyler's place. Trevor stayed with her till the end playing and singing songs and being at her side holding her hand and talking to her. She died fighting for every second, eventually passing early Sunday morning.

Lauren was a wife, daughter, auntie, sister and mother. She had a smile that could light up a room, and pretty much anyone would just talk to her and tell her their whole life story. She had a calming energy to her, a bit of a silly streak (ok a lot of a silly streak) and a lot of passion for life. Lauren loved all her family and friends very much and she was very loved in return; She was taken much too soon, and she did not want to go. She is resting peacefully now, and so long as we remember her, she will always be loved, and she will always love us in return.

Cheryl Lynn Erickson (Nee Zalecki), age 50, of Hudson, OH passed away peacefully on March 13, 2024 after courageously battling metastatic breast cancer for 9.5 years. Devoted wife of 16 years to Kevin Erickson. Beloved daughter of Edward and Jean (deceased) Zalecki; daughter-in-law to Norman Erickson and Billie Williams. Loving sister of Christina Scharf (Josh) and brother Thomas; sister-in-law to Gregory Erickson. Cherished aunt of Noah and Ethan. Dear niece, cousin, and friend to many.

Born on November 15, 1973, Cheryl lived here whole life in the Northeast Ohio area. She was a graduate of the Class of 1992 from Midpark High School and went on to achieve her MBA in 2005 from Baldwin-Wallace University.

Cher, as she was commonly called, was the epitome of strength, courage, perseverance, and kindness. Cher loved traveling and going on her yearly cruise adventures with Kevin, visiting Orlando with her family, shopping and fashion, pop culture (especially "Friends" and Britney Spears!), holiday decorating, her beloved Cleveland Cavaliers, playing volleyball, spoiling her nephews, and spending time with family and friends. Her most cherished role in life was being a "momma" to her beloved Labrador Retriever, Brady.

Diana Janice Robinson, age 65, of Seabrook, Texas, passed away January 25, 2024. She was born in Huntington, New York on October 4, 1958 to Kenneth and Louise Stamp and grew up in Centerport, New York. Shortly after moving to Houston in 1982 Diana met James Thomas Robinson. Jim was smitten with Diana and they were married in 1984.

After graduating from Harborfields High School in Greenlawn, New York in 1976, Diana attended Johnson and Wales College in Rhode Island before joining the Army in 1978. Diana trained as an Operating Room Specialist and attained the rank of SP5 before her Honorable Discharge in 1982. Upon moving to Houston, Texas Diana went to work for St. Luke’s Hospital in the Medical Center as an operating room nurse. In May of 1984 she went to work for the Lion’s Eye Bank at Baylor College of Medicine as an Organ Donor Coordinator. This would be her passion for the next 16 years. While at the Lion’s Eye Bank she worked tirelessly facilitating the donation and harvesting of thousands of corneas for use in restoration of sight and for use in eye research. After 16 years Diana left the Eyebank to spend more time with her daughters. She then began working as a substitute teacher for special education in her daughters’ school district. Later she would devote full time to the care and raising of her two girls, Jamie and Jessica.

During Diana’s childhood she spent summers at Lake Sunapee, New Hampshire where she enjoyed swimming, water skiing and sailing. She was an accomplished slalom water skier and participated in water ski shows. She was also an accomplished flute player and used this talent to play not only for her high school band but also for several local churches.

During her daughters’ childhoods Diana’s family lived in South Shore Harbor in League City, Texas. Diana devoted her time to making her daughters’ childhoods a happy fun filled time. There were outings to parks, zoos and wildlife parks, gymnastics lessons, cheer and dance lessons, sleepover parties and plain old “let’s pretend” play times. When the girls were old enough Diana had a backyard swimming pool built that her daughters and friends spent hours using and making memories. Diana loved animals and there were always furry pets in the house. The rescue dogs and cats, additional gerbils, hamsters, ferrets, guinea pigs, rabbits, parakeets, doves and ducks became friends not only for her children but neighborhood kids as well. Once Diana raised two Peking ducklings and when they were grown, the ducks’ new home was the South Shore Harbor golf course behind her house.

Diana dove wholeheartedly into the role of grandmother or “Nonni.” She planned and participated in many outing and vacation memories with her young grandsons while also spending hours playing with them and the newest toy she could not pass up. As her cancer progressed and her energy levels were low, she created a new playground for her grandsons in her “big bed” playing games and watching their favorite shows.

Diana was a friend to the friendless throughout her life. As a schoolgirl when she saw someone alone Diana would approach them to make conversation so they would not feel alone. This continued throughout her life and she touched the lives of all who knew her.

Diana fought courageously through her battle with breast cancer. The advice she received during her support groups was generously shared by Diana to others who were suffering. She had a positive attitude and smile on her face even when sick from chemotherapy and in pain. She was an inspiration to those around her. The faith she received as a child baptized into the Methodist church and later in the Baptist church helped to give Diana the strength she needed during her 3.5 year battle.

Diana was preceded in death by her father and mother Kenneth and Louise Stamp, her older sister Patricia Philbin, and her younger sister Amanda Chase Margolies.

Diana is survived by her loving husband of 39 years, James Robinson, her daughter Jamie Whittenton and son-in-law Luke Whittenton, and her daughter Jessica Robinson. She is survived by her grandsons Lucas Whittenton, James Whittenton, and Jett Robinson. She is also survived by her older sister Linda Saarinen and her husband Steven Saarinen, as well as numerous nieces and nephews with whom she shared close relationships and meaningful experiences. Additionally, she leaves behind two best friends Dorothy Miller and Donnel Tormey, who shared countless cherished memories with her.

A visitation for Diana will be held Saturday, February 3, 2024, from 4:30 PM to 7:30 PM. The funeral service will be held Sunday, February 4, 2024, to start at 1:30 PM and a committal service to follow. All services will be held at Forest Park East Funeral Home, located at 21620 Gulf Freeway in Webster, Texas.

In lieu of flowers the family requests that donations be made to METAvivor to support metastatic breast cancer research, or the American Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Animals. Links are included below.

https://donate.metavivor.org/

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Adina Marie Perullo, aka ‘The Storm,’ passed away on August 7, 2023. She is survived by her husband and two beautiful boys, along with both her parents and brother. Adina was diagnosed with stage 2 breast cancer in June of 2019, where she fought a long battle consisting of preventive treatments, doctors’ appointments, surgeries and radiation for over a year all during Covid. Unfortunately, after her first-annual scan, it showed the cancer had spread to her liver. She was then diagnosed with metastatic breast cancer in December 2020.

While fighting her own battle, she was still trying to help others by speaking at breast cancer events, filming commercials, and was featured in numerous news channel segments. She was a keynote speaker at the Making Strides Against Breast Cancer awareness walk. She was on channel 7 and channel 12 news channels. She spoke at The Breast Cancer Conference of Nassau County, along with Nassau County executive, Laura Curran. She was featured in the NY Cancer and Blood Specialists magazine as well as their commercial.

Her force was something to not reckon with. She strived to get the message out that ‘stage 4 needs more' and ‘don’t ignore stage 4’ She was not going to go down without a fight! She was not only going to speak for herself but was also doing it for others. She wanted people to recognize the metastatic colors: pink, teal and green. Additionally, she advocated and raised awareness for self-care and strived to raise funds for research for stage 4. She was fighting so hard in hopes to make metastatic breast cancer a chronic Illness and not a terminal illness. Her strong and courageous attitude inspired others. Her presence alone would light up a room. Her infectious smile and vibrant attitude would always lift people up, even on their darkest days. She was, and still is a true warrior. ‘The Storm.’

Adina had gone through 8 failed treatments in little over 2 and half years since the stage 4 diagnosis. She endured extreme side effects from the chemo along with the numerous lesions that were in her liver that soon spread to her spine. There was a message that she had said to her husband shortly before she passed, she said to him that make sure people know that I did not lose this battle to cancer, I beat it. It was a losing battle to begin with.

When her diagnosis switched from stage 2 to stage 4, she got stronger and was more vocal about raising awareness and still continued to work and manage normal life tasks. She would attend metastatic breast cancer walks, she would also speak at almost every event she attended, explaining her story and trying to raise funds for research for stage 4 metastatic breast cancer patients. She wanted her voice to be heard.

Adina had owned her own wedding planning business since 2014. Her company was named ‘A Perfect Day Wedding Planning and Coordination.’ She would give all her effort, even on her toughest days, to make sure her brides had their ‘perfect’ day. There were times where she had an invasive chemo treatment and she would then work a long 17-hour day on her feet, 3 days post-chemo treatment. She would always put other people’s needs before hers. She was and continues to be a true inspiration. She had worked her last wedding in late October of 2022, and she indeed upheld the name of her business ‘A Perfect Day Wedding Planning & Coordination.’ The network she made in the wedding industry was like no other. The numerous vendors she met and created relationships with has impacted their businesses.

The most rewarding and remarkable tribute is that a lot of vendors came together and granted the wish she wanted for after she passed: ‘A celebration of life’.’ A memorable day and it was definitely planned with ‘Adina style’ It couldn’t have been pulled off without the help of her friends, family and all the vendors she met over the years in the wedding industry.

She is also a true New York Ranger fan. When she was a little girl, she would always sneak down into her basement and watch games with her dad. However, the house was divided with her husband and the kids, as they are all New York Islander fans. This made the hockey games in the house very interesting to say the least. The sport of hockey would always make her smile, especially when she would watch her older son play goalie for high level Long Island team. In the month of October, her son’s entire hockey organization (all ages) wears game jerseys that have the metastatic ribbon on it, along with her initials. It is a true honor and confirmation that her message was heard loud and clear and that her legacy will continue with the help from family and friends. Her devotion to hockey was like no other, she would always find the strength to watch her older son play. She would get on the road shortly after chemo treatments to make the games. She would also make our youngest son’s baseball and soccer games. Sometimes there was nowhere to sit during those games but that didn’t stop her from going. She was always there for her two boys.

The legacy that she left behind is truly remarkable. The impact she had on the local community, hockey community, hospital and doctor staff, or just about anyone she had come into contact with was unmeasurable. They all can say that they were lucky to have met her. The world was such a better place with her around. She saw the good in everyone and always just wanted to lend a hand to everyone she met, no matter what. Her legacy will continue, her family and friends will carry her torch, light it up for her, and set forth her values. We will forever remember her name, ‘Adina Marie Perullo, aka The Storm.’

Holli Hoelscher Simon passed away September 24, 2023 at the age of 50, after a courageous 5-year battle with metastatic breast cancer. A beautiful wife, mother, daughter and friend to many who will continue to honor her legacy by living life to the fullest and loving big.

Holli leaves behind her adoring husband of 23 years, Jonathan Everett Simon, and her beautiful daughters Sarah Cahill Simon (20) and Ann Everett Simon (16) as well as her beloved golden retriever "Jojo". She is also survived by her loving and supportive mother Barbara Stotts Hoelscher and mother-in-law Martha Ann Harper Simon. Holli also leaves behind an army of sacred friendships and work colleagues all of whom provided overwhelming love and support to Holli and her family during her fight against this dreadful disease.

Holli was an accomplished student at The University of Alabama receiving a Bachelor of Science in Accounting graduating Summa Cum Laude in 1995. She then received her Masters of Accountancy and was inducted into the Beta Alpha Psi accounting honor society. She then went on to be a highly valued working professional for PriceWaterhouseCoopers financial firm. Holli served the firm for 25 years starting as a CPA in the firm's audit practice before transitioning into a full-time role in Human Resources.

Holli will always be known for her tremendous beauty "inside and out". Her internal beauty was on full display in her final weeks on this earth when she used every ounce of energy left in her body, after countless surgeries, countless chemotherapy infusions, and countless radiation treatments, to support her family as well as support other newly diagnosed cancer patients within her community.

Holli's legacy has not stopped fighting as the many people who were blessed to know Holli as well as the many people who were inspired by Holli, have donated over $50,000 to METAvivor in honor of Holli since her passing.

The blessing of a lifetime to those who knew and loved her. Rest In Peace sweet Holli!

Karen Sue Fitzpatrick, age 69, of rural Bayard, IA, passed away on Monday, December 4, 2023 at Iowa Methodist Medical Center in Des Moines, IA, surrounded by her family. Karen was born on October 8, 1954 in Des Moines, IA. She was the daughter of John and Rose Mary (McKinney) Penick. She grew up in St. Charles, IA, and graduated from I-35 High School in 1973. She was married to Joe Fitzpatrick on September 22, 1973 at St. Joseph Catholic Church in Winterset. The couple lived in several communities before making their home near Bayard. Karen worked at American Home Shield in Carroll, Garst Seed Company, and she sold Avon. During her working years, she attended DMACC in Carroll and earned a degree in Business Administration. She was a member of St. Patrick’s Parish in Bayard where she served as bookkeeper and taught CCD. Karen enjoyed knitting, crocheting, camping, fishing, traveling, and most of all spending time with her grandchildren.

Karen is survived by her husband Joe of rural Bayard; daughter Jennifer Predny (Michael) of El Paso, TX; three sons: Jeremy Fitzpatrick (Sara) of Johnston, Vincent Fitzpatrick of Colfax, and Andrew Fitzpatrick of Davenport; eight grandchildren: Trevor, Sean, Kathryn, Julia, James, Connor, Elijah, and Eleanor; three brothers: Raymond Penick of Forkland, AL, John Penick (Donna) of Beggs, OK, and Mike Penick of Conowingo, MD; four sisters-in-law: Eileen Klevann (Howard) of Eden Prairie, MN, Ann Amato of Omaha, NE, Jane Hall (Pat Willenborg) of Coon Rapids, IA, and Kay Finneseth (Scott) of Perry, IA; three brothers-in-law: Tom Fitzpatrick (Beth) of Portland, OR, and Ed Fitzpatrick (Barb) of Blaine, MN, and Jim Fitzpatrick (Maria) of Sun Prairie, WI; other extended family members: Rick Ryan (Vicki) and Mary Ryan; and many nieces, nephews, and cousins.

Karen was preceded in death by her parents John and Rose Mary Penick; her father-in-law: Vincent Fitzpatrick; her mother-in-law Regina Ryan (Tom); two sisters: Rose Ann Lemon (Earl) and Mary Lou Hodges (Howard); and two brothers: Leonard in infancy and Rodney Penick.

Maria Wallmark left us on July 8 2023. Maria was the beloved wife of Daniel and devoted mother of Ellen (12) and Emil (9). Daughter of Tommy and Eva. Sister to Elin and Per. Also survived by many loving Aunts, Uncles, Cousins, Nieces, Nephews, friends and colleagues.

Maria was born on November 14th 1983 and lived in the Linköping area during her childhood. The last 14 years she lived together with her husband Daniel near Jönköping. Maria loved doing creative things such as painting, sewing, photography, gardening, decorating and cooking. Maria also enjoyed all kinds of physical activities such as yoga, swimming, walking, running and she loved to work out. She often went on long walks in nature with the family’s dog Charlie. Keeping active was especially important to Maria during her illness and helped keep her strong, mentally and physically.

Maria was 36 when first diagnosed with stage 4 metastatic breast cancer. She did absolutely everything she could to fight this disease back. She tried all conventional treatments offered in Sweden and travelled to Germany to receive groundbreaking new treatment. She read books, scientific research reports and everything she could find to give herself the best chance of getting better. This commitment kept her going and gave her hope. She stayed positive and determined throughout and gave her body the best possible conditions to fight back the cancer, but in the end the cancer finally won.

Maria will always be remembered as a positive and smart person with a strong driving force in everything she chose to do. Maria enjoyed everything that life had to offer, especially the small daily moments here and now. Maria will keep living in the hearts of her nearest and dearest, especially in her daughter Ellen and her son
Emil. Thank you Maria for all the love, laughs, moments and memories.

In Maria’s name and from Maria’s own wish the family has made a donation to METAvivor, to support the fight against metastatic breast cancer.

Kathleen Mildred ‘Dukie’ (Keenan) Romasco 71, died after a 5-year battle with cancer on November 16th, in her daughter’s home in Florida surrounded by loved ones. She was born December 9, 1951, in Portland the daughter of the late Kevin C. and Mary D. (Poor) Keenan.

Kate attended South Portland High School. During her high school career, she married her office crush, Hank A. Caiazzo. The two of them had a son, Chris J. Caiazzo. When that young love didn’t survive, she later married Gary J. Romasco. Together they had two daughters, Laura E. Romasco and Susan A. Romasco and were married until his death in 1999.

For her whole life, Kate had a love of music inspired by her family’s past time of sitting around together, strumming the guitar, and singing songs boisterously in her parents’ living room during holidays, barbeques, or Sunday dinners. Her family became infamous for never being able to finish a song, either messing up a chord or a lyric! Even up until her end, you could see her tapping her foot or singing along to a favorite song on the radio on her way to a doctor’s appointment!

Her favorite place as a child was T-Ledge. At age 12 she was caught sneaking onto the property to feed the horses carrots. She quickly negotiated free riding lessons for mucking stalls and caring for the horses. At the age of 23 she briefly owned her own horse, Shawnees Midnight Firefly, a black, American Saddlebred with a white spot on her chest. Next to her children and grandchildren she often referred to this horse as her pride and joy!

Kate had a fierce work ethic. She held her first job at age 9 on Larrabees farm in Scarborough picking string beans, red beans, and strawberries. By age 12 she was on the “big” crew, out picking all the boys and harvesting lettuce. In her adult life she bartended and did a stint at Hannaford Corporate before finding homes at Jensen Baird Gardener & Henry and finally at Drummond Woodsum where she stayed until her retirement as a paralegal.

In addition to her parents, she was predeceased by her former husband’s Hank Caiazzo and Gary Romasco, her sister-in-law Barbera Keenan, her brother-in-law Christopher Luck and brother David Keenan. She is survived by her Son, Christopher Caiazzo and his wife, Beth of Scarborough, her daughter Laura Romasco and her husband Brandon Ferrante of Falmouth, her daughter Susan Romasco-Jones (one of her caretakers in the end) and her husband Nick Jones of Navarre, Fl.; 7 grandsons (who were her light and reason for fighting) Joshua Caiazzo, Justin Caiazzo, Nicholas Jones, Henry Jones, Thomas Jones, Landon Ferrante, Lincoln Ferrante, her sister in law Patty Keenan, her Brother Dan Keenan, her sister Susan Ferrante and her husband David Ferrante, her sister Erin Luck (also one of her caretakers in the end, who was a gift to Kate’s children…we couldn’t have done this without you) and her husband Malcolm Coulter, her brother Mike Keenan and his wife Kathy Keenan, and countless nieces, nephews, cousins and in-laws. The greatest gift that Dukie left us with was a big family and the village that helped to raise us!

Amanda Leigh Suedbeck was born August 18, 1979 to Charlie and Gaylene Suedbeck in Slayton, Minnesota. In 1984, Amanda's family moved from Slayton to Lester Prairie Minnesota, where she graduated from Lester Prairie High School in 1997. While in high school, she participated in volleyball, basketball and softball. She was also a member of the National Honor Society.

After high school, Amanda attended Minnesota State University, Mankato. She graduated with her Bachelor of Science degree in 2003. Amanda's love was for teaching. After graduating, she wanted a change of scenery. This brought her to Houston, Texas. Fortunately, for Houston, she decided this felt like her new home. In August 2003, she was offered a job at Parker Intermediate. Amanda taught at Parker for 15 years. In August 2018 she moved to Lewis Middle School. Although Amanda was hired as an English teacher, she spent most of her time teaching math.

In Amanda's spare time she enjoyed just hanging out with friends, playing games, and putting puzzles together. She also loved talking on the phone with her Minnesota Family, especially her beloved nieces. On October 27, 2023, Amanda lost her courageous fight with breast cancer. Amanda is survived by her father, Charlie (Bonnie) Suedbeck of Annandale, MN; mother, Gaylene Suedbeck of Mesa, AZ; sister, Lesley (Mike) Peterson of Lilydale, MN and her beloved nieces, Kendra and Katie Peterson. She is also survived by many aunts, uncles, cousins, and her Texas "family." She was preceded in death by her brother, Chad Suedbeck; paternal grandparents, Fritz and Charlotte Suedbeck; maternal grandparents, Bob and Pat Wagley; uncle, John Wagley.

Our beloved mother, wife, grandmother, great grandmother, sister, aunt and friend, Dianne Ross (McGinnis) passed away April 18, 2023 at the age of 75, after 10 courageous months fighting triple negative metastatic breast cancer. Surrounded by her loving family who will continue to honor her legacy by living their lives to the fullest and loving with all of their hearts.

Dianne was born June 10, 1947, in Bellingham Washington. Her love of family was always her priority and if you ask any of her grandkids about their fondest memories of childhood it would be intertwined with tales of boating and golf cart rides and cookies. The simplest things brought Dianne the greatest pleasure. Her kindness and compassion was contagious and spread to all that knew and loved her. Brave and courageous doesn’t begin to define her final year. She made the best of a bad deal and taught us all to always find the silver linings - no matter how small.

She is forever loved and missed by her husband, children, grandchildren and 1 great granddaughter we will always miss her encouragement and love. Remembered forever by her sisters and auntie, many special cousins, nieces and nephews and of course her special “sister friends”. She was blessed all her life with beautiful friendships and treasured them all. Predeceased by her parents and older sister.

Her biggest wish would be that metastatic breast cancer will one day have a cure.

-Her wings were ready, our hearts were not-

Mary Ellen Thomas, 56, died on Oct. 3, 2023, surrounded by her family, after a valiant struggle with metastatic breast cancer and Wilson’s Disease. While we are devastated by our tremendous loss, we are grateful for having known and loved such a remarkable person. We will miss Mary’s free spirit, her empathy for others, her gentleness, her ability to tell stories and create a magical world, her toughness, her stoicism, and her brave heart.

The youngest of eight, Mary was born May 20, 1967, to Winifred and Owen Thomas in Bartlesville, OK. In 1979, the family relocated to Salt Lake City, UT. Mary attended Judge Memorial High School, graduating in 1985. At the University of Utah, she earned bachelor’s degrees in both English and History. Later, Mary returned to school, obtaining her master’s in education and certifications in teaching and ESL. A lifelong learner, Mary was finishing a second Master’s degree in creative writing at Weber State at the time of her death.

Mary was employed by the Granite School District, teaching English at Cottonwood High School for the last 7 years. Previously, Mary taught at Our Lady of Lourdes and St. Joseph High School. For many years, Mary worked as a health unit coordinator in LDS Hospital’s thoracic unit and in Primary Children’s emergency room.

Mary was a dreamer and even as a preschooler she was electrified by horses. She frequently played with her plastic horses and longed to ride one. Finally, at age 11, she got her first horse, Billy Bob Randall, a quarter horse, who was the same age she was. She rode him in the Christmas parade in Bartlesville, Oklahoma. He was groomed to perfection, and he felt special. He pranced in the parade, much to Mary’s delight. Billy moved to Utah with Mary in 1979. Mary had a series of beloved horses who lived to old age.

After Mary was diagnosed with breast cancer and underwent treatment 6 years ago, she acquired Greta, a beautiful and spirited former racehorse. Greta was joy and life to Mary. She loved to let Greta out in a large arena to run for the beauty and thrill of running. With her tail held high and her head up, Greta and Mary shared their exhilaration. For Mary, interacting with horses, in all their magnificence, was a spiritual experience. In addition to her horses, Mary loved and cared for many animals over the years, including beloved dogs Jasmine and Boots, and most recently, a poodle puppy named Jasper.

A very quiet, private person, Mary expressed her emotions in her music and often played for her mother. She was an accomplished pianist and taught piano lessons to students for many years. Teaching piano was how she discovered her love of teaching. She found great meaning and satisfaction in seeing her students experience what she did playing music.

Another love of Mary’s was written language. She was someone for whom reading was a major dimension of her life. She wanted to share with her students what she found so beautiful: to move into another’s mind and heart and experience life through them, to realize that our individual struggles are universal and a part of the shared human experience. She often engaged students in imaginative ways with art and history and asked them to imagine themselves inside stories like she did.

In April of this year when Mary’s health began to fail, she continued to prioritize leading her seniors and other students to the end of a successful school year. Not until all the papers were graded and grades were submitted did she turn her attention to her growing health crisis. By June 8th, she was in the hospital in critical condition.

Mary was preceded in death by her parents and brothers, David and Robert. David died at 22 years old of Wilson’s Disease, a recessive genetic condition affecting copper metabolism. Without treatment it is uniformly fatal. Until David died, no one in the family knew about Wilson’s Disease.

Mary was very close to David. He often played with Mary when she was a small child and pretended to be her horse “Fred.” When he was hospitalized after becoming very ill, he explained to her that his IVs were “Fred’s oats.”

Within months of David’s death, Mary also was diagnosed with Wilson’s Disease and began treatment. Mary adored David and she was profoundly affected by his death. It started her on an inward journey to understand what we experience in life. She read widely in literature and became a reflective person who was passionate about social justice and cared about the suffering in the world. She was a person of great kindness who gave generously to other people.

The family wishes to thank Dr. James Shortridge, who provided compassionate care for Mary throughout her six years of treatment for breast cancer, Dr. Alisa Knowlton, her longtime physician, Dr. Edward J. Frech, and the doctors and nurses at Holy Cross Hospital Davis and at Intermountain Medical Center.

Survived by sisters: Jann DeWitt (John) and Kathleen Zellner (Robert); brothers: John (Trisha), Paul (Robin), and James (Patty) Thomas; nieces and nephews: Mariam (John Boyle) and Ayan Farah, Ryan, Emily (Carey), Wiley, Kathryn, Samuel (Brianna), Lydia, Eva and Johnny Thomas, Anne Zellner Sherwood (Brandon); extended family and friends.

Alyson “Ali” Lynn (Prescott) Flechsig, age 40, of Mechanicsburg, PA, died at UPMC Shadyside Hospital, Pittsburgh surrounded by her loving family on Thursday, July 6, 2023, after a 4 years long battle with metastatic breast cancer. Ali was born on Tuesday, November 16, 1982, in Bethlehem, PA to Thomas Russell Prescott and Debra Ann (Litts) Prescott.

Ali’s survivors include her husband, Kenneth Flechsig; her two children: Derek Flechsig; Kaitlyn Flechsig; her parents, Thomas Russell Prescott of Front Royal, VA and Debra Ann (Litts) Prescott of Vandling, PA; her four siblings: Jason Prescott and his wife, Paula Prescott, of Forest City, PA; Benjamin Prescott and his fiancé, Kimberly Niedzielski, of Westfield, MA; Stacy Strock and her husband, Adam Strock, of Stanley, VA; and Timothy Prescott and his wife, Tiffany Prescott, of Duncannon, PA.

Ali graduated from Gateway Regional High School in Huntington, MA as part of the class of 2001 and from Westfield State College in Westfield, MA in 2005 and in 2007 she received her Master’s degree from Shippensburg University. She worked for Select Medical as an Accounting Manager. Ali loved kids and was involved in cub scouts with her son Derek. She enjoyed lighthouses and the beach especially Cape May, NJ and Ocean City, MD. Ali could best be described as loving, caring, friendly, sweet and kind. She was loved by everyone.

Miriam Zogby Balutis was born on August 22, 1945 in Utica, NY, and died on August 22, 2023 at her home in Arlington, VA, enveloped in the warmth, love and care of her family, and secure in the knowledge that the former president’s next arraignment was imminent. She is survived by her devoted partner of many years, Jan Jaworski, and her two beloved children Juliette (Nor) Balutis and Adam Balutis. She is also survived by her sister Sadieann (Robert) Spear; niece Rachel (Robert Palladino) Mazzotta; nephew Christian (Barbara) Mazzotta; cousin Marya (Christopher Healey) Myslinski; and their children. She was preceded in death by her parents, Wadih and Juliette Zogby.

Miriam died of metastatic breast cancer, and it was her clear and strong wish that in memorializing her, we eschew the warrior and battle-centric language that we often see used to define the cancer experience, along with its tacit implication that surviving or dying from cancer is simply a variable driven by the will of a patient. Miriam did not “lose her battle” with cancer; she endured it for seven and a half years, abiding difficult treatments and rare side effects while living her life as well and as fully as possible throughout: traveling extensively with her partner, hosting joyful gatherings at her home, contributing her time and energy to countless campaigns to elect Democrats in Virginia and across the nation, volunteering in her community, growing numerous varieties of heirloom tomatoes in her beautifully self-landscaped backyard, and spending many treasured hours with family and friends. Though she is no longer bound by the physical body that cancer destroyed, she didn’t lose anything - not her perspective, her dignity, her sense of humor, her quick wit, her compassion for others, her moral clarity, her intolerance for injustice, her brilliant mind, her wide-ranging wisdom, her commitment to community, or her love of life’s simple joys. Her loss is solely ours: the tremendous, seismic loss of an indomitable and loving mother, partner, friend and neighbor.

Miriam grew up in Utica, NY and moved to Arlington in 1977 after earning a Bachelor’s Degree from Utica College and a Master’s Degree from SUNY Buffalo. She spent much of her career as a dedicated civil servant at the United States Census Bureau, where she worked for more than 25 years, joining in 1985 and retiring in 2011. She worked on three Censuses (1990, 2000, and 2010), and the Commerce Department recognized her with its Bronze Medal Award in 2001 for her outstanding contributions to the successful completion and evaluation of the 2000 Census. She developed instructional and training materials that translated complex survey designs into understandable form for thousands of newly hired temporary interviewers and assumed additional management roles in the later Censuses. The results of these surveys were critically important to understanding how accurately and completely the Census was taken. She was highly regarded, liked, and respected by her colleagues and her staff for her expertise, insight, craft, and common sense, leavened with a sense of humor and a calm and steady demeanor.

In addition to her professional commitment to public service, Miriam was passionate about civic participation and community engagement in her personal life. She served for many years as an Arlington County Democratic Party precinct captain, worked the polls in the wee hours of the morning nearly every election, developed and administered the volunteer training program for Arlington Neighborhood Villages, and volunteered for Matthew 25, a social justice ministry distributing clothing and household goods to those in need.

Miriam loved the outdoors, walking, and hiking. She delighted in traveling and experiencing new places in her retirement and especially adored the U.S. National Parks, of which she hiked many with her partner Jan on their carefully planned but adventure-filled trips. When she was closer to home, she took great pleasure in tackling increasingly challenging DIY projects, cultivating her backyard garden, and enjoying her “framily” (friends/family). In her many relationships with others, she held a rare balance of complexity without complication, humor without hostility, presence without pressure, helping without hovering, caring without coddling, and challenging you without trying to change you. She could engage you in spirited conversation or debate, sit with you in companionable silence, or anything in between - wherever you were, Miriam met you there. She was a thoughtful, sensitive listener, deeply empathetic with a wry wit, and many sought out her sage, judgment-free counsel, and the quiet, loving presence that made anywhere she was feel like home.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations can be made to METAvivor (metavivor.org/take-action/donate/) to fund rigorously peer-reviewed research for treating and curing metastatic breast cancer, which causes 97-99% of all breast cancer deaths while receiving only 2-5% of breast cancer research funding; or to World Central Kitchen (donate.wck.org) to provide fresh meals for communities in need across the globe. You may also honor Miriam in your everyday lives by, in her own words, taking the time to “consider the man-made arrangements that influence our world and leave so many in positions of poverty and powerlessness, question ourselves about what we are doing to change these arrangements, and feel more than a little uncomfortable if the answer is ‘nothing.’”

Tiffany Lynn (Eckels) O'Donnell, 43, of Hershey passed away on August 5, 2023, surrounded by her family, after braving a hard-fought journey with breast cancer.

Tiffany was a warrior with a heart of gold, and her everlasting inspiration will fill the people who knew her with the incredible joy she felt for life. Her greatest happiness stemmed from the love and passion she shared with her family and friends cheering on every life milestone, accomplishment, and happy occasion. Her proudest contribution to the world was her daughter, her “little peanut” Elizabeth, whom she adored and supported in every way imaginable.

Tiffany was a shining inspiration and instant friend to everyone who had the pleasure to meet her. She loved making homemade crafts to share with her friends, was a diehard Philadelphia sports fan, and a frequent team mom and volunteer for her daughter’s sports teams and school activities.

Born June 4, 1980, in Altoona; her family later moved to Mechanicsburg. Tiffany was a 1998 graduate of Cumberland Valley High School and went on to receive her Bachelor of Science in Marketing from West Chester University. Her passion to always be in service to others led her to a career in healthcare, serving the Cancer Institute and Breast Center at Penn State Health. Tiffany’s kindhearted personality provided countless cancer patients with a comforting word, the most beautiful smile, and the knowledge they would not be facing their cancer journeys alone.

A former All-American Cheerleader, Tiffany’s lovable personality, the brightest blue eyes you will ever see, and her compassion for helping people led her to become a fierce and relentless advocate for numerous cancer support groups. Over the years, she helped to raise hundreds of thousands of dollars for organizations including the Young Survival Coalition (YSC), the METAvivor organization, and Making Strides Against Breast Cancer. One of her top passions was riding in the 200-mile YSC Tour de Pink charity bicycle ride and spending time with other young women on a similar journey. As one of her dear friends put it regarding the annual weekend event, “you put a bunch of young women together who have faced death, and you get a whole bunch of living!” The sisterhood she formed through these activities was a source of strength, inspiration, and courage to fight and live every day to the fullest.

Tiffany is survived by her husband, Brian O'Donnell; their daughter, Elizabeth Maree; parents, Randy and Cindy (Vogel) Eckels; sister, Heather and brother-in-law, Ryan Melick; paternal grandmother, Francy Eckels; parents-in-law Dennis and Linda O'Donnell; sisters-in-law Kathleen Butler and Carrie Ann Bickhart; and best friend, Courtney McCaleb.

She was preceded in death by paternal grandfather, Edward W. Eckels and maternal grandparents, Francis and Ruthanna Vogel.

December 31, 1990 - July 30, 2023
Amanda was just 27 when first diagnosed with breast cancer. She fought a courageous battle and was able to push the monster back into remission. It came back with a vengeance a couple of years later. Amanda fought hard...so, so hard. When it was diagnosed as being back, there was no hope of it going back into remission, only the hope of keeping it at bay and giving her more years. The doctors gave her 3-12 months with the recurrence. Amanda aggressively fought and won 18. Many broken hearts lay in the wake of her passing, from her wife, Kaye, to her mother & father and two sisters, grandparent, aunt & uncle, cousins, and countless friends and acquaintances who followed Amanda's Vlog chronicling her journey. She had such an inspirational impact on so many in her short time on this Earth and will be deeply missed. Once Amanda discovered so little money received for breast cancer research went for metastatic breast cancer research specifically, she wanted donations sent to them in her memory. As such, we were able to make a donation in her memory. Please feel free to make a donation if you are so inclined in memory of a loved one.

Margaret Jane Moore "Maggie", aged 31, of Deerfield Beach, FL, passed away on June 13, 2023, surrounded by loved ones, after a courageous two-year battle with metastatic breast cancer (MBC). Maggie was born and raised in Hoffman Estates, IL, and her vibrant spirit and beautiful smile touched the lives of all who knew her.

From a young age, Maggie loved sports. Maggie’s early passions included soccer and fishing. As a defender for the Hoffman United Eagles, she showcased her soccer skills on the field. Maggie's love for fishing began at her grandparents' homes in Wisconsin and North Carolina, where she cultivated her knowledge of various fish species. Over the years, she enjoyed fishing expeditions, both in lakes and rivers, but she loved being on the ocean and deep-sea fishing best. She relished the thrill of reeling in unique catches and game fish. Her “prized possession” was a trophy plaque from her once in a lifetime catch of a Scumrot fish, a very rare deep drop fish and widely regarded as the "ugliest fish in the world."

Among Maggie's cherished memories were the friendships she formed at Red Pine Camp for Girls in Wisconsin. She was a camping person. While following in her mother and sisters' footsteps, she carved her own path at the camp, earning numerous awards in sailing, waterskiing, and tennis. Her peers recognized her friendliness and abilities, and she was voted All Around Camper in 2007.

During her high school years, Maggie transferred to Cranbrook Kingswood Upper School, where she flourished as a boarding student and graduated in 2010. She formed lasting connections with fellow students and thrived academically. Maggie hosted her Cranbrook friends for unforgettable trips to Lollapalooza and downtown Chicago.

Following high school, Maggie pursued her college education at George Washington University in Washington, DC where she graduated with a degree in Political Science and Communications in 2014. She was a proud member of Delta Gamma sorority. She embraced the city's energy and remained tirelessly active, balancing her academic responsibilities with numerous jobs and internships.

After graduation, she worked at Meridian Group and Sternhell Associates in Washington DC as a policy research analyst and government relations associate. Maggie’s parents said she was a “born lobbyist” – she always had another answer when given the word “No”.

Maggie's passion for fishing eventually led her to Fort Lauderdale, FL in 2020, where she landed a job as the Director of Government Relations for a childcare company advocating for early childhood education. Her proximity to the ocean allowed her to enjoy countless deep-sea fishing adventures and joyful moments on the beach. She developed friendships with fishing captains who taught her about fishing and crabbing, and shared her love of adventure. She wished she could have one last fishing trip and sit on the beach once more before leaving this world.

Maggie was an ardent sports enthusiast, faithfully supporting her favorite teams, including the Green Bay Packers, Duke Basketball, and the Washington Capitals. She took great joy in participating in football and March Madness pools, relishing the friendly competition with her friends near and far.

Even after her diagnosis, Maggie was determined to travel as much as she could, and attend sporting events for her favorite teams. In less than two years, she created cherished memories in the Florida Keys, Caribbean islands of Jamaica, Dominican Republic, St. Maarten, Martinique, Turks and Caicos, Grand Cayman, Bimini, Hawaii, Colombia, and the Kentucky Bourbon Trail. She attended three Green Bay Packers games (Soldier Field, Lambeau Field and Dolphins stadium), an Illinois vs Wisconsin football game, numerous Miami Dolphins and Florida Panthers games and most recently a trip to Houston for the 2023 NCAA Basketball Final Four.

Maggie leaves behind a loving network of family and friends, including her devoted boyfriend, Mike Zambory and their puppy “Grouper”, her parents Sharon and Kevin Moore, her sisters Katie Black and Allison (Josh) Norloff, and her Grandmother Ruth Moore. She is preceded in death by her maternal grandparents, Jane and Hugh Rather, her paternal grandfather, Maurice Moore Jr., and her brother-in-law, Ben Black.

Maggie will be remembered as the life of the party—an often “bad ass”, naughty, fearless and magnetic personality who fiercely protected and advocated for her friends. Her unwavering determination inspired others to follow their dreams without hesitation. Please remember Maggie whenever you are at the beach or out on the water.

In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests donations to METAvivor in Maggie's memory. METAvivor is a 501c3 charitable organization dedicated to funding metastatic breast cancer research through a rigorous peer-review process, with 100% of donations allocated to MBC-specific research grants. Contributions can be made at www.metavivor.org, ensuring that Maggie's legacy lives on through meaningful advancements in the fight against MBC.

Mariateresa (Raschello) Pezzello, 59, passed away peacefully surrounded by her loving daughters and family Monday, Sept. 30, 2019. She was born in Lamezia Terme, Italy, and came to the United States in 1975. Mariateresa graduated New London High School and worked for many years at Connecticut College.

Also known as Mommy, Mama P, Matiooch, Godmommy, and Kiki, Mariateresa was adored by her family and friends. Best known for her famous Italian Christmas cookies, love steak, salad, and homemade gnocchi, Mariateresa was the most amazing cook. Her favorite past-time included puttering around her backyard talking to all her plants, planting way too many flowers to count, and watching them flourish as they grew. She also loved the beach and throwing massive family parties. Mariateresa lived for her four girls and did everything to make sure they were happy and safe.

She joins her parents, Domenico and Maria (Morelli) Raschello; her sister Angelina Raschello; and her brother Pino Raschello. She is survived by and missed dearly by her daughters, Lucia Pezzello, Sabrina and her fiancé Shaun Hyde, Angela Pezzello, and Cristina Pezzello; her brothers, Enzo Raschello, Tonino Raschello and his wife Concetta of Italy; her sisters, Rosalba Bottone and her husband Salvatore, Ivana Cunningham, Adriana Dulay and her husband Michael, Tiziana Raschello Trent and her husband Ron; her dear best friends, Carol Giulietti and Donna Showers; and many nieces and nephews.

Diagnosed with stage 4 triple negative metastatic breast cancer October 2021, died July 2023. Sara was 38 years old.

She didn’t lose her battle with cancer: science, research, medical oncologists failed her and so many others diagnosed with metastatic breast cancer. It’s not all pink flag waving. There is much to be done and not enough research focused on MBC.

Sara remained a force of light and love to all who knew her through her journey to the end. During this time she helped birth an online project for people with cancer to come together in online table top and roll playing games. Play Cancer Away @PlayCancerAway can be found on twitter & discord.

“All life is transitory. A dream. We all come together
in the same place at the end of time. If I don’t see you again here,
I will see you in a little while, in the place where no shadows fall.”
(Delenn, Babylon 5)

“We were here
Grieving the saddened faces
Conquering the darkest places
Time to rest now and to finish the show
And become the music, one with alpenglow”
(Nightwish, “Alpenglow”)

“Long live all the mountains we moved
I had the time of my life fighting dragons with you”
(Taylor Swift, “Long Live”)

Beloved Wife, Mother, Sister & Friend, Jane Peed, entered into God’s Kingdom on August 2nd, 2023. After being told she had weeks to live when initially diagnosed in March of 2018, Jane fought a courageous, 5+ year battle with Stage IV, metastatic breast cancer.

Those close to Jane know that she could be somewhat stubborn on occasion, but her family was so happy that Jane dug in her heels after that initial diagnosis, got to see the marriage of her youngest daughter, Laura, and the birth of her first two grandchildren, Ryker and Raelyn. Even with all of her health scares and constant pain, Jane made it to the Grand Canyon and even cruised around Europe! Jane was a shining example of how to fight through adversity and not let anything, even a Stage IV cancer diagnosis, stop you from living your life to the fullest.

Jane was born to James and Elizabeth Wright on March 28th, 1953 in Franklin, Kentucky, joining her older sister, Martha Ann. Jane had quite the unique set of hobbies early on – as a young child she loved playing the piano, but the next day you could find her winning trophies for the best pig call (Sooie!) at the local fair. Ultimately determining that there wasn’t much money in pig calling, she decided to attend the University of Kentucky (Go Big Blue!) and graduated with a degree in Business (with a minor in attending every UK basketball and football game). After graduating, she moved to Ft. Lauderdale, Florida where she built an outstanding career as a CPA.

In 1983, Jane met Blake, and it was a match made in heaven (other than the fact that it is typically frowned upon dating the boss’s son!). After dominating the local beach volleyball courts for a few years, Jane & Blake went on to have 2 beautiful children, Emily and Laura. Jane was the most amazing mother, teaching her kids the value of hard work as they watched her run her own successful accounting practice, while always still finding the time to attend every chorus concert and volleyball game of her kids.

Jane was also a loyal servant to God, first and foremost. She loved the church and loved sharing the love and warmth of our savior, Jesus Christ, with as many people as possible.

Jane is survived by so many loving family members, including her husband, Blake; her children and their families, Emily, Richie, Ryker, and Raelyn and Laura and Spencer; and her sister, Martha Ann Lee.

Larayne Kaye Glidewell “Lala” was born on May 18, 1981 and passed peacefully into the next life on April 26, 2023 at home in San Diego, California.

Larayne’s life impacted thousands of people for good, with her infectious optimism, resilient spirit, and pure heart. While sorrow and struggle played a part in her journey, the light of her joy and persistent striving shone brighter than any shadows. Larayne’s vocation as a postpartum doula, nanny, and general “baby whisperer” took many forms and although she never parented children of her own, Larayne’s “kids” bear the legacy of her love. Larayne’s physical presence on earth ended after a journey with metastatic breast cancer, a disease which accompanied her for the last three years of her life, but that she faced with courage, tenacity, and a will to either heal from physically, or teach everyone around her how to die with grace and gratitude in the process.

She is survived by her husband, Carter Lee, parents, Mary and Charlie Heineke, siblings, Grant and Tamara Glidewell, CJ Heineke, nephew Logan, and countless family who love her so. We celebrate Larayne’s life and look forward with joy to meeting her again in some other way—a glimmer of pink glitter, a butterfly beating its wings, or in life’s most gracious and joyful teachers. A celebration of Larayne’s life will be held on June 10th, 2023 in Poway Community Center, San Diego from 2-4 pm and one in Texas on August 5th, 2023, with details to come.

Patricia Ann Aluise "Patti" January 2, 1952 - May 8, 2023

It is with broken hearts that we announce the passing of Patricia "Patti" Ann Aluise of Gambrills, Maryland, who slipped away peacefully in the arms of her children on May 8, 2023 at the age of 71, after many years of living with Stage 4 Metastatic Breast Cancer (MBC) diagnosed in 2014.


Retired from a long successful career at The Washington Post, Patti began a 2nd career at the IRS. She then retired from her federal job to pursue a new position as an original Ambassador for Pfizer's new drug IBRANCE, which gave her an additional 5+1/2 productive years. In her owns words… "This Ambassador program has given me a new lease on life, new goals. I have found a new purpose. Now I have something to look forward to in my life."


She was not only an amazing advocate for MBC, but was consistently active with METAvivor and the Wellness House of Annapolis, passionately supporting and mentoring countless diagnosed women over the years, and taking calls right up until the day before going into the hospital. Pfizer shared her story here: www.ibrance.com/mbc-stories/ambassadors/patti


Besides enjoying time with family and friends, Patti had an enthusiasm for traveling, cruising, camping, card games, Broadway shows, movies, sports especially hockey, scrapbooking, cars, cats and laughter. She had a bright and energetic personality, loved well and was well-loved, touching lives wherever she went.


Patti is survived by her children, the loves of her life, son Christopher and daughter Anni, as well as sister Beverly Aluise Knight and many, many, lifelong friends, cousins and pet kitties. She was predeceased by her loving parents Ann Gerardi Aluise and Patsy Vincent Aluise.

Elizabeth Finley Stevens, beloved wife and mother, left us on April 1, 2023 at her home in Northville, MI.
Elizabeth was the beloved wife of Tom and devoted mother of McKenzie (12) and TJ (11). Daughter of Dan (Rose) Finley and Ginny DeCoursey. Sister of Lindsey (Michael) Anderson. Preceded in death by her Brother, John Finley. Also survived by over 100 loving Aunt’s, Uncle’s, Cousins, Nieces, and Nephews.

From growing up in Naperville, IL, to studying at the University of Georgia (Go Dawgs!), to living and working all over the country, and finally to devoting every moment of her time to her kids and their passions, Elizabeth touched so many along the way. She loved playing tennis, she tried playing golf, and valued family and friend time over all else. The family ski trips were particularly important, simply riding the chair lift while McKenzie and TJ talked about their runs were some of her favorite moments. She enjoyed spending time in Naples and Charleston, loved being on the water, and was a beach girl at heart.

Her laughter lit up a room. Her smile would melt your heart. She always knew what to say, and never hesitated to say it. She was a beautiful soul, and left us way too soon. Elizabeth died very peacefully, and surrounded by family. Her children got to see how strong she was.

Jennifer Alter-Rieken (nee Pugh), of O Fallon, MO, passed away Wednesday, March 22, 2023 at the age of 43. Loving wife of David Rieken; beloved daughter of Catherine Reiners; devoted mother of Jackson Alter and Freya Rieken; dear sister of Krystal, Samantha, and the late Christopher. Jenn is also survived by her fur babies, Bismarck, Violet and Sansa.

Jennifer was diagnosed with stage 2b breast cancer in 2012. She underwent a double mastectomy, chemotherapy, and radiation and was afterward pronounced in remission. In February 2020 it was discovered to have metastasized. She underwent various treatments with varying levels of success until her options ran out in February 2023.

Jennifer graduated from the University of California - Santa Barbara with a bachelor's degree in English in 2002. She then pursued her law degree at the University of Missouri - Columbia and graduated in May 2006 with a Juris Doctorate. Following her graduation, Jennifer started her own law firm and has been serving the St. Louis area for over 17 years.

Jennifer loved music and going to concerts, she especially liked indie rock and Dave Matthews Band. She was an avid reader who enjoyed going to microbreweries and taking road trips. Above all things, she loved to spend time with her family and beloved pets. Jennifer was dearly loved and will be greatly missed by all who knew her.

In lieu of flowers, please make memorial donations in Jennifer's name to Metavivor.

Pat passed away on Jan 14th, 2023, after a courageous battle with metastatic breast cancer. She will be lovingly remembered.

It is with deep sadness that we announce the passing of Jackie Noel Braun Sailer on December 19, 2022. Jackie died at the Riverview Health Center in Winnipeg surrounded by her family.
Jackie was born on Mother’s Day, May 10, 1987. She is survived by husband Antonin (Tony) Sailer, sons Tristan Braun Sailer and Julian Braun Sailer; parents Murray and Sue Braun, brother Adam Braun, and grandmother Lorraine Braun Pokrant. She was predeceased by grandparents Iris Doney (2008) and Frank Doney (2014), grandfather Art Braun (1989) and step-grandfather Wally Pokrant (2021).

Jackie was born in Winnipeg and moved to Morden with her parents and brother in 1989. Jackie started playing piano at a young age. Jackie loved figure skating. She was proud of her involvement as a figure skater and on the synchronized team. During her teen years she had the opportunity to own and ride several different horses and became an accomplished equestrian. Jackie was involved in a 4H horse club, where she competed provincially, as well as being involved in Pony Club. In high school she played trombone in the jazz band. She was a confident singer and enjoyed her time with the high school choir. After graduating from Morden Collegiate in 2003, she went on to study at the University of Manitoba where she graduated with an advanced degree in political studies. During her time at university, she became involved in recreational co-ed soccer. It was through soccer that she met the love of her life, Tony. They were married on June 7, 2014, in Winnipeg at the Southwood Golf & Country Club. In 2017 they were blessed by the birth of their first child (Tristan), and in 2021 their second child (Julian).

Jackie worked for a short time at Western Insurance Company before moving on to her career at the Province of Manitoba in Manitoba Health, Office of the Fire Commission and later in the Civil Service Commission and the Social Innovation Office. Jackie and Tony enjoyed traveling. They traveled to Costa Rica, Mexico, Canada’s east coast, the Rocky Mountains, stops in England, Scotland, Portugal, Ireland on their way to visit Tony’s extended family in the Czech Republic twice.

Jackie was a dedicated public servant, wife, parent, daughter, and friend. She had a creative side expressed in her baking and painting. Jackie always spent her life in pursuit of growth, whether that was personal or professional. She always sought to challenge herself by finding a better, more efficient way of doing things. During her illness, she spent her time teaching herself to knit and crochet, with each new project learning a new stitch or skill.
Jackie passed due to liver failure, a direct result of the triple negative metastatic breast cancer. She received this diagnosis in April of 2021 while pregnant with her second son Julian. She went through many different treatments which kept the tumors at bay in some parts of her body. However, the treatments were not effective at treating the tumors in her liver and lungs. There is no cure for triple negative metastatic breast cancer. In October of 2022 she made the decision to enter the palliative care program and spend her remaining time at home with her family.

To my best friend and mother, I will love and miss you for eternity. The most wonderful wife, mother, sister, aunt, grandmother, and friend. A courageous MBC patient who was in treatment for 7 years. She succumbed to the disease in November 2022.

Jennifer Jill Szabo, age 51, of Topeka, passed away Wednesday, November 9, 2022 at her home in Topeka after a four-year battle with metastatic breast cancer. Jenny was born September 27, 1971 in Topeka, the daughter of Michael and Sandy (Hollenbeck) Barnes. Jenny graduated from Shawnee Heights High School in 1990. She married Jon Haas, they later divorced. She married Peter Szabo June 2, 2018. Jenny worked at the State of Kansas, but cherished her time at home with her family as a stay-at-home mom.

Jenny was preceded in death by her grandparents, Wilma and Edmond Barnes, Aletha and WM John Hollenbeck, Uncle Fred Hollenbeck, and best friend’s daughter whom she loved as her own, Brittany Dunn. Jenny is survived by her husband, Peter; three sons, Taylor (Kennedy) Haas, Jared Haas and Luke Haas, all of Topeka; two daughters, Kali Haas and Jessica Haas, both of Topeka; brother, Chris Barnes of North Carolina and two grandchildren, Lincoln and Olivia Haas. Also surviving are several aunts, uncles and cousins. Jenny loved sports, concerts and just hanging with friends. She loved her dogs very much, Sterling, Oliver, and her granddogs, Hazel and Mr. Otis.

Gail died on 10/10/2022 after a courageous two year battle with metastatic breast cancer. She is missed every day.

Maureen Pitchon Palmquist (February 7, 1952-October 14, 2022) died peacefully at her house on Friday night surrounded by her family. She fought a courageous battle with Metastatic Breast Cancer over the last 3 years. She was a force of nature to everyone that had a pleasure to know her. She was a devoted wife, loving sister, exceptional mother, a fiercely loved grandmother, a wonderful mother-in-law, a friend, a sister-in-law, a confidant, a teacher and an artist extraordinaire. Her smile and laughter would light up any room she walked into.

An Art Teacher for over 30 years, Maureen’s impact on her students reaches far beyond her wildest dreams. She was their safe haven, their mentor, their creator and their friend. After retirement, Maureen painted in her home studio and made jewelry to keep her creative juices flowing. However, her most prized job that she had was that of mother, grandmother, wife and sister. Married to John for nearly 48 years and together for 52 years, the two met at Ohio State University and have been inseparable ever since.

Nonnie was a title that fit Maureen the best. Her littlest loves, McKayla and Jack, made her fight harder with each passing day. They simply adored their Nonnie. Maureen helped raise McKayla from birth, and the two formed a bond any child would be lucky to have with their grandparent. She was lucky enough to help raise Jack until the cancer took it’s toll. She will be sorely missed by McKayla and Jack, but will be remembered and celebrated forever.

As a loving mother to Jenna and a devoted sister to Renee, Maureen was sure to make every interaction memorable and impactful. She instilled empathy, kindness, and positivity in Jenna, and set an incredible example for McKayla and Jack for what they have to look forward to in growing up as siblings with Renee.

Maureen is survived by her husband, John Palmquist, sister Renee Pitchon, daughter and son-in-law Jenna and Andy Stein, and her grandchildren, McKayla and Jack Stein.

Allison Faith fought courageously with MBC for over 3 years before passing on December 17th, 2021. She was diagnosed just two months after her 40th birthday and before her first routine mammogram. A beloved high school teacher, friend, sister, daughter, wife and mom she continues to be missed by many. Allison grew up in Bolingbrook, IL and attended college at Centre College in Danville, KY. She moved to Louisville shortly after where she earned master’s degrees in English and Education. She married the love of her life, Matthew and planted roots in Corydon, IN where she taught high school and joyfully started raising her family. She left behind her husband Matt, son Nathan, daughter Madeline, dog River, her parents John + Kim Hoffert, sister Meagan Krift (Ryan) nieces and nephew, and countless others who love and miss her.
The light and positivity that she radiated even in her final days continues to inspire us to live louder in life and to shine bright for others.

On September 26th, 2022, Sarah Arlington Ball, known to her loved ones and the world simply as “Sally,” lost her two-year battle with metastatic breast cancer three weeks shy of her sixty-eighth birthday.

Sally was born in Washington, D.C., on October 17th, 1954, to Sarah Leigh Davis and Richard Charles Arlington. After graduating from High Point High School, Sally studied mental health and nursing at Prince George’s Community College. She received her A.A. in mental health and nursing in 1978 and launched a diverse forty-two-year-long career which ranged from Emergency Medicine to Intensive Care to Employee Health. She met her husband, Martin Andrew Ball, while working as an EMT in the rescue squad before nursing, marrying in 1983, and spent the next thirty-eight years raising three children to the background noise of over-the-top medicine anecdotes, HGTV, and dad jokes.

Sally was first and foremost an advocate for her patients, family, and friends. She was always willing to see the best in those around her, whether old friends or brand-new acquaintances. She was a ferocious and thoughtful gift-giver who would plan months in advance to find the ideal gift for her neighborhood mail carrier. She was an enthusiastic seasonal decorator, and her home was graced year-long with flowers and curios for every holiday (much to the joy of visitors and the chagrin of her husband, who had to help). A long-time Joe Walsh and Washington Capitals fan, she grew to love a variety of things over her decades, including Southern Maryland Blue Crabs, PINK, and Harry Styles. She was preceded in death by her elder brother and leaves behind her beloved husband, sister, daughters, son, grandchildren, and fleet of mischievous hummingbirds.

Her retirement dream of returning to watch whales in Alaska will be carried out posthumously by her family.

Alice Goodman, age 78, of rural Marshalltown, passed away in the peace of her home with family at her side and in care of the Iowa River Hospice on the evening of Sunday, November 29th, 2020.

Born on March 30th, 1942 in Marshalltown, she was the daughter of Orville and Anna (Medhus) Specht. She received her education at Beaman Conrad Schools in Conrad and graduated from Beaman Conrad High School in 1960.

On June 18th, 1960, she was united in marriage to Donald Goodman at St. Mary’s Catholic Church in Marshalltown. They resided on the family farm in Haverhill where she raised 5 kids. They later moved south of Marshalltown.

Alice was a member of Lincoln Valley Golf Association, Saint Monica’s Society, Saint Francis of Assisi Parish and a lifetime member of the Immaculate Conception Catholic Church prior to moving membership to St. Henry’s. Alice devoted her life to faith and family. Family was her passion and she enjoyed attending her children’s, grandchildren’s and great grandchildren’s sporting events. She was an avid bowler in her younger days and enjoyed playing golf and wintering in Texas.

Left to cherish her memory are her children: Chris (Laurie) Goodman of Champlin, MN, Kevin (Dana) Goodman of Haverhill, Gary (Jacque) Goodman of Marshalltown, Sue Goodman of State Center and Deanna Goodman (Michael O’Sullivan) of Ft. Collins, CO. Also surviving are 16 grandchildren: Sydney, Sam, Christian (Cassidy), Brennan, Quinn (Kevin-fiancé), Elizabeth, Ashley (Andrew), Grant, Alex, Emma (Tavares), Serena, Molly (Wade), Claire, Marcus, Jena (Aaron) and Kieran; six great-grandchildren: Laken, Brecken, Jozhias, Carter, Nova, Aiden; sister Louise (Jack) Grove; brother Don (Gilda) Specht; brother-in-law Bob Valastak of Boulder, CO and sister-in-law Sue (Marc) Wyman of Greenwood Village, CO, as well as many nieces, nephews, cousins and friends.

In death, Alice rejoined her husband, Don, parents Orville and Anna, sister Marjorie Ferneau, brother Joseph Specht, In-laws Clarence and Iva Goodman, nephew Barry Specht, brother-in-law Ronald Goodman, sister-in-law Janet Valastak and in-laws Helen Goodman, Angela Frye and Jack Naughton.

Yee Ling Shiu, dearly known to her family as “La Patrona,” passed away on Wednesday, October 27th, 2021.

She had a long battle with cancer, but she never gave up and fought until the very end. Her last moments were peaceful. She passed during her sleep surrounded by her husband and three children holding her hands.

Stories like Yee Ling’s don’t come around often. Born in Canton, China, she immigrated to Montevideo, Uruguay when she was 11 years old. There, she learned to adapt to a completely different culture while mastering a new language. Not only did she become one of the best students in her new school, but she also helped her family build the “Shiu dynasty”, the start of a welcoming Chinese community in a small South American town. Along the way, she made lifelong friendships and traveled the world. In 1984, she met her future husband and companion of 37 years, Ben (a.k.a. Luis).

In her own words:

“I met my husband in the charming old way people separated by distance did, by exchanging long handwritten letters every thirty to forty days from 1984 to 1986. Long-distance phone calls were dear and had to be assisted by an international operator in order to get through. Ben was living in Asunción, Paraguay while I was living in Montevideo. The first time we met was in Buenos Aires, Argentina, and it was love at first sight. Our love steadily grew bigger and we got married on April 8, 1986. All of our kids came in succession, the next year welcomed Steven, then Andrés in 1988, and finally Lynda in 1990.”

Yee Ling moved mountains to provide the best opportunities for her children and she never let obstacles get in her way. In 2005, despite having established a comfortable life in Uruguay, Yee and Luis moved to Chicago in order to provide their children an opportunity to pursue the American dream. Yee took English classes to learn and perfect yet another language, and created an environment where she and her family could thrive.

While Yee Ling tended to shy away from the spotlight and avoid being the center of attention, she always lit up the room with her warmth, positivity, and generosity. All who knew her looked forward to gatherings at her home, where she would treat every meal like a feast, serving endless delicious asados, empanadas, tea, and tiramisus. In her naturally selfless way, she always made sure everyone was cared for. She had the biggest heart and was generous with her time, her advice, and her love. Even in her last moments, she insisted that her kids get special gifts and treats for her medical team.

Yee Ling cared deeply about education. Her unconditional support of her children allowed them to achieve their dreams and be the best versions of themselves. Thanks to her relentless encouragement and dedication, her children (all first generation college students) were able to push themselves to obtain multiple advanced degrees. This is just one testament to the incredible impact she had on those around her, constantly inspiring her loved ones and giving endless amounts of support.

In honor of Yee Ling's belief in the power of education, a scholarship was set up in her name to help first generation college students pursue their dreams.

She is survived by her husband of 35 years, Ben Li Lin; her three children; Steven Lin (Xiang Li), Andrés Lin-Shiu (Avery Miller), and Lynda Lin (Vincent Pham), her mother Leticia Chan, her sister Wei Ling Shiu (Man Kim Hsu), her brothers Jorge Shiu (Raquel Garcia) and Jaime Shiu, as well as many other loved ones.

Dr. Chera Lee Sayers Erbaş, 61, of Palm Coast, Florida, peacefully passed away on January 8, 2021 from stage 4 metastatic breast cancer, surrounded by the love and support of her family.

Chera was born on April 14, 1959 to her proud parents, Vernon and Shirley Sayers. Born and raised in East Lansing, Michigan, Chera was a curious, vibrant and loving child. While attending East Lansing High School, Chera was deeply involved in school clubs and gatherings, and was universally regarded by her classmates as a fun, curious, kind and caring person. A genuine friend to everyone she met, she kept in touch with many of her childhood friends throughout her life. She excelled academically in all subjects, particularly in mathematics, and graduated high school with high honors in 1977.

Raised a proud Spartan fan, Chera enrolled at Michigan State University, and graduated with an economics degree in 1981. At MSU, Chera’s professors were consistently impressed by her talent, curiosity and intellect, and encouraged her to apply to graduate school. After being accepted to several top 10 programs, Chera enrolled at the University of Wisconsin, Madison to pursue her PhD in economics. She completed her doctoral dissertation under the mentorship of William A. “Buz” Brock, a pioneer in chaos theory and nonlinearity. Described by many colleagues as astoundingly bright and brilliant, she was a leading expert on chaos theory within her field.

Upon earning her PhD in 1986, Dr. Sayers began her career in academia, moving around between appointments before landing at the University of Houston. She later worked for Commodities Futures Exchange Commission before returning to academia. At American University, she helped restructure the economic curriculum for postgraduates. Later in her career, she founded her consulting business, Economic Consulting for Litigation. As an expert witness, she conducted employment damages valuations for legal disputes. During her career, Dr. Sayers also published a number of professional and academic journal articles on complex topics including chaos theory and multivariate nonlinear forecasting.

Chera was a loving mother to Serra (b. 1993) and Ayşe (b. 2000). Her daughters will always remember her for how intensely she adored and cherished them, how fiercely she protected them, the passion for which she fought and advocated for them, and for her emphatic support through all their journeys and successes. Her daughters honor her for giving them their passionate zest for life, motivational drive, and explosive laughter, and blame her entirely for becoming so headstrong and relentlessly stubborn.

Chera was known for her vivacious and contagious laugh that never seemed to stop, and whose intense volume would, for better or worse, turn heads everywhere she went. There was never a dull moment with Chera - she was full of surprises throughout her life, and her daughters have found themselves continually surprised by her even after her death. The life of the party, she had an incredible sense of humor, and had an unbelievable ability to find joy in even the darkest moments. To the amazement and delight of her family, she continued to radiate her boundless joy, light, and laughter until her dying breath.

Chera lived fearlessly, curating a life full of wild and fascinating stories that kept people laughing for hours. An avid explorer, Chera traveled to the furthest corners of the globe, visiting dozens of countries during her life. One of her greatest passions was scuba diving, and she traveled far and wide to discover the rich life that exists within our planet's oceans.

Perhaps the most moving thing about Chera was her positive outlook on life and her gratitude for every day she spent on this earth. Despite being diagnosed with terminal cancer, she remained a bright light and refused to let her diagnosis rule her life and her outlook. At a time when she would have absolutely been justified in being selfish and morose, she was giving, loving and joyful. Her children aspire to be even half the woman she was in these respects.

Chera is survived by her parents, Vernon & Shirley Sayers, her daughters, Serra (Davis) & Ayşe Erbaş, their father, S. Nuri Erbaş, her partner, Barry Lenk, her brother and sister-in-law, David and Carol Sayers, their children, Erin (Daniel, Bentley, Blakely) & Lynn (Brad), her beloved dog, Baby, and grand-dog, Luna. Chera is also survived by dozens of dear friends, near and far, all of whom would be impossible to list.

Chera was a beauty, a joy, and the sun at the center of our universes. She is deeply missed by all who had the pleasure and privilege of knowing her.

Though it is impossible to capture Chera’s vibrancy in a single sentence, one of her favorite Turkish Proverbs does a pretty good job:

“For the mad man, every day is a holiday.”

Former Scarsdale resident Ann Elisabeth Donovan, 49, of Seattle, Washington, died August 26, 2019. Ann was born in Tarrytown to Loretta (Jablonski) and John Donovan on July 10, 1970, and grew up in Scarsdale where she attended Edgewood School and graduated from Scarsdale High School.

At the high school, she contributed her artistic talents to the Drama Club and as art editor of Bandersnatch, the school yearbook. As a founder of The Common Ground, she earned the Gold Award from the Girl Scouts of Westchester/Putnam for her leadership of the café that provided a positive social environment for teens throughout Central Westchester. She earned a Bachelor of Arts, majoring in visual and performing arts, at Syracuse University in 1992 where she was a member of the University Senate.

Ann relocated to Seattle and built a career in web design, marketing and business development. Together with her husband, Randy Pape, she grew Paperless Business Systems into an award-winning software and services company. When the 1998 World Trade Organization conference erupted in violence, Ms. Donovan joined her neighbors in strengthening civic engagement.

Serving as president of Seattle’s Capitol Hill Community Council from 1999 to 2005, she was instrumental in influencing Walgreens to replace its plans for a single story retail site Broadway at Pine in the Seattle neighborhood with mixed-use affordable housing. In October 2018 she was recognized for that accomplishment in a dedication of the building’s lobby.

Ms. Donovan’s interest in modern dance, nurtured at the Steffi Nossen School of Dance in Scarsdale and enhanced at Syracuse University, attracted her to Seattle’s Velocity Dance Center where she served on the board from 2004 to 2007. In recent years, she devoted her talents to painting and drawing.

Ms. Donovan was known to forge connections with others even as she faced her own health issues, working alongside women in online communities with the goal of ensuring that their health experiences were not overlooked. She was at the forefront of the legislative response to terminal illness as she was confronting metastatic HER2 breast cancer. Traveling to Olympia, Washington, to testify, she successfully advocated for passage of the Right to Try Law, allowing terminally ill patients access to experimental therapies, which Washington Gov. Jay Inslee signed in 2017.

In addition to her parents of Brookfield, Connecticut, Ann is survived by her husband, Randy Pape, and sons, Jonah and Oliver; brother, John (Loredana) of Katonah; sister, Courtney (Ian Duncan) and niece, Oona, of Oakland, California; as well as many other relatives and friends.

Donna Waters, age 66, went to be with her Lord on Friday, July 1, 2022, after an almost 7 year battle with MBC. She was preceded in death by her parents Thomas and Irene Abramovich. She is survived by her husband, Barry Waters; daughters Jillian (Jacob) Pearce and Amy (Kevin) Van Bramer; brothers Nicholas (Irene) Abramovich, Terry (Lynne) Abramovich, Ronald (Janice) Abramovich; sister, Shirley (Matthew) Harper; and many nieces, nephews, and friends.

Born in Cleveland, OH, Donna was a proud graduate of The Ohio State University, where she met her beloved husband, Barry. For over 40 years, Donna was a dental hygienist – practicing in the states of Ohio, Georgia, New Jersey, Florida and Michigan. Always a team player, Donna is remembered as an excellent hygienist, supportive colleague and consummate professional. As much as Donna loved her career, daughters Jillian and Amy brought Donna the most joy in her life.

Donna was the centerpiece of her family – both as a middle child and the matriarch of her own family. She was a loyal and trusted friend to many. Her inclusive and caring attitude made everyone feel welcome and important. Her organization and perseverance got things done. Her dignity and grace prevailed over terminal illness. Her zest for fun and excitement made Donna someone you wanted to be around. Donna was a special person who put others above herself, and in doing so was loved by all who knew her.

We will miss her wonderful smile, big heart and joy for life. Although sad to lose such an amazing person, we take great joy in knowing Donna now has a place in heaven through eternity with our Lord and Savior. Donna’s work on Earth is done, and boy did she do a great job.

Donna found METAvivor early in her MBC journey. She was grateful for the sense of community it provided and the knowledge she gained from others with whom she connected. Locally, she helped raise awareness for MBC and was instrumental in adding McKay Tower in Grand Rapids, MI as a landmark for the annual #LightUpMBC campaign each October.

Vanessa Irene Ashley, age 57, died May 26, 2022 in Vero Beach, Florida. Vanessa was born January 31, 1965 in Granitsa, Greece. She was adopted early in life by her loving parents Robert L Snyder and June (Knight) Snyder (deceased). She married John R. Ashley in 1985, later divorced. She is survived by her adoring life partner Robert A Crosby, her two sons Jason Ashley and Christopher Ashley and her dog Toby, the loves of her life. She is also survived by her loving brother Vincent R. Snyder (Kris) and her natural mother Maria Tsigas, four Greek sisters and two Greek brothers with many nieces and nephews including many English cousins (June).

Vanessa had terrific enthusiasm to experience people and the world. She had a zest for life and travel and made friends readily wherever she went. She loved hot weather, sunshine and the water. She graduated from Wayne HS in Huber Heights Ohio in 1983. She served honorably in the US Air Force Reserves for many years. After completing her bachelors degree, she became a passionate social worker coordinating adoption services for children in need in the State of Kentucky. Vanessa was a longtime resident of Northern Kentucky and happily established family roots in the Villa Hills community where she enjoyed Cincinnati Bengals and Reds games. She expanded her family by hosting and mentoring many exchange HS students from around Europe over the years. During her cancer battle, she served as the KY State Captain for Metavivor.

With incredible courage and her loving husband by her side, Alyson Podolak passed away in the comfort of her home on Sunday, April 10, 2022 at the age of 48.
Predeceased by her father and mother, Rick and Cathy Podolak, and mother-in-law, Olga Stergios. Aly leaves behind her beloved husband Nick Stergios, her cherished daughter Zoë Stergios and loving sisters Christy Podolak-Webster and Amy Podolak-Klaamas. Dearest aunt to her nephews Keegan Webster, Anthony and James Mplias, and her nieces Maëlle and Scarlett Klaamas. She will be lovingly remembered by her father-in-law Tony Stergios, brothers-in-law Brett Webster and Andy Klaamas, sister and brother-in-law Alex and Peter Mplias, her Uncle Donald and Aunt CeCe (McCallum), Susan McCallum and Mer Johnson.
Aly was an inspiration to many people, she was known for her quick wit, hospitality, healing hands and her ability to make you feel noticed. Aly had a fulfilling and dedicated career in massage therapy. Aly loved spending quality time with her family and friends, cooking and baking for others and especially having sleepovers with her nieces and nephews. Aly will forever be missed.

Keri Lynn Burkholder Marston, 39, passed from the church militant to the church triumphant Friday, April 22, 2022.
She is survived by her husband, Chris, two daughters – Rebecca and Rachael; parents Gerry Reed and Barry Lee Burkholder, Uncle Lee Reed, Aunt Cecille Burkholder; special cousins – Margie (John) Shaw, Dan Kane; in-laws, Dawn and Jimmy Hartman, grandmother in-law, Violet Marston; brothers-in-law – Jason (Katie)Marston, Jonathan (Lauren) Marston and their families; cousins –Pam (Randy) Pletcher, Kim Burkholder, Patty Zink and families.
She was preceded in death by grandparents – Betty and Elvin Reed, Roseanna and Walter Burkholder; cousin, Jeannie Lee Reed Kane; Uncle Stanley Burkholder; father-in-law, G. Michael Marston; grandfather-in-law, Garnett Marston; grandparents-in-law, Gail and O. Graham Sullivan.
Keri grew up in Mechanicsville and the Burkeville/Farmville areas. She graduated high school from Fuqua School in Farmville and received a BA degree with honors in Communication Studies with a focus in Public Relations from James Madison University.
Keri used her education and communication skills working for various United Methodist churches. At the time of her passing she was employed at Shady Grove UMC in Mechanicsville as Director of Communications. Keri served the Virginia Conference as a member and President of the Board of Communications.
Keri’s love of life and people was a powerful witness to her faith. Her smile lit up a room and her laughter, often accompanied by a wink of an eye, was contagious. Her life was a powerful witness of what it means to be Christ to the world.
Among her favorite things were watching her girls dance and allowing their imagination and creativity to flourish. She cherished family time at the beach or on a great roller coaster. Keri was proud of Chris and his accomplishments with the Paralympic triathlon program and his work as an engineer.

Amy Lin Voigt Essig, 50, of Springfield, IL, died on February 21, 2022, at home surrounded by family and friends.
Born June 5, 1971, in Burlington, Iowa, she was the daughter of Ernest and Linda (VanWinkle) Voigt. On September 18, 2010, she married John R. Essig at Grace Lutheran Church in Springfield, IL.
Amy graduated in 1989 from Burlington High School as a member of the National Honor Society. She graduated Magna Cum Laude from Western Illinois University with a degree in accounting and a minor in finance while achieving memberships in Phi Eta Sigma, Freshman Honor Society, Phi Cappa Phi Honor Society, and Beta Gamma Sigma, school of business. She achieved her CPA certification in May 1997.
Amy started her career with Deloitte in Springfield and later joined GEO.S. Olive & Co., LLC. She continued her career in accounting for Bunn-o-matic, completing 19 years of service and Hanson Professional Services, Inc. from May 2013 to present.
Amy was a member of Grace Lutheran Church in Springfield, IL. She enjoyed travel, all types of music, especially Barry Manilow, spending time with family, she loved animals especially her kitties. Her Zumba club friends became a very special part of her family.
Survivors include, her parents Linda and Ernie Voigt, Husband, John Essig, step son Ryan Essig and step daughters, Michelle Essig and Meghan Essig, one uncle and cousins.
Amy was preceded in death by her grandparents, her two aunts and an uncle.

With courage and grace, and in the arms of her loving family, Tamarah “T” Munsterman Brooks passed away on Tuesday, March 29, 2022 at the age of 49. Beloved wife of Monty Brooks for 25 years. Daughter of Curt and Pam Munsterman. Daughter-in-law of Laura and Michael Brooks. Sister of Seth Munsterman (Lisa). Sister-in-law of Jace Brooks (Renee) and Lindy Johnson (Curt). Aunt of Colby Munsterman and Eden and Ivy Brooks. Also survived by her furry four-legged companion, Stella and the late Emmy Lou. She was a registered nurse having worked with newborns her entire career. She was an avid reader and loved the beach and her puppies. She loved hanging out and traveling with friends and family, eating crawfish, the Saints and neighborhood cookouts. She loved and was dearly loved by her many aunts, uncles, cousins and friends. She was a native of Buras, LA and a resident of Belle Chasse, LA. Tamarah bravely fought metastatic breast cancer for four years and will be dearly missed and remembered by all.

Rhonda M. Lawrence of Newportville passed away on Friday, April 1, 2022 at Chandler Hall surrounded by her loving family following a long battle with Metastatic Breast Cancer. She was 65.

Born in Philadelphia, Rhonda has been a long time resident of Lower Bucks County.

An avid animal lover, Rhonda formerly owned a pet shop and had previously worked as a Veterinary Technician. Growing up, she loved to ride her horse, Sunrise, through the streets of Northeast Philadelphia. Later in life, her beloved Bernese Mountain dogs brought her so much joy.

Rhonda loved gardening and took great pride in her vegetable and flower gardens. She also enjoyed cooking for her family, especially her famous meatballs and mashed potatoes.

The cornerstone of the family, Rhonda was a strong woman both inside and out. She fought valiantly against breast cancer for over 20 years. Words cannot express the strength and resilience Rhonda possessed. She will be lovingly remembered as a devoted wife, mother and grandmother who was completely dedicated to the ones she loved.

Beloved wife of Michael A. Lawrence for 40 years, Rhonda was the loving mother of Kelly Keene (Ryan), Ryan Lawrence (Lauren), Timothy Lawrence, and Hayleigh Scott (Dillon) and the devoted grandmother of Olivia, Samantha and Emilia Keene, Everett, Alexander and June Lawrence, and Magnolia Scott.

Daughter of Amedeo and the late Gloria Cappella, Rhonda is survived by her brother, Michael Cappella as well as many loving aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews, cousins and friends.

Gina Maire Spradling, 53, of Fairfield, OH, passed away in the comfort of her home with her husband and daughter by her side on Tuesday, March 22, 2022. Gina was born May 7, 1968 in Cincinnati, OH to Raymond (Patricia) Bengel and Donna (James) Whitaker. Beloved wife to her husband of 33 years, Anthony Spradling; loving mother to daughter Kaitlyn (Steven) Schaefer. Also survived by step-son David (Deanna) Spradling; adored grandmother to Luke Schaefer, Claire Schaefer, & William Schaefer and Madison Spradling & Ava Spradling; cherished sister to Nicholas Bengel, Stephanie Pitts, and Christine (Jeffrey) Clarke; also survived by niece Mackenzie Anderson and nephews Blayne Camden and Zachary Clarke. Gina also leaves a tremendous number of friends and co-workers from Cincinnati Insurance Company, where she worked for 26 years, most recently excelling as a National Program Director. Gina was preceded in death by her grandparents, Joseph & Edria Cella as well as Fred & Marie Bengel.

With courage and grace, and in the arms of her loving family, Heather passed from this world and is finally at peace.
In her 40 years, she touched the lives of so many, and will be forever remembered for her beautiful spirit, her wonderful laugh, and her fierce love for her family.
She leaves behind her beloved husband Ryan, her son Evan and her daughter Brynn, loving parents Dave and Colleen Naylor, sister, and best friend Deirdre (Cam) Shipley, dear brother Matthew (Erin) Naylor, and grandparents Brian and Cecile McEachen. Heather is survived by her parents-in-law Kathy and Gerry Leasa, and sisters-in-law Jaime (Scott) Young, Carey (Courtney) McLean, and Jenny (Ryan) Goodearle. Dearest aunt to Owen, Avery, Thomas, Ava, Lucy, Charlie, Michael, Heidi and Erica, and the cherished niece of Jeff and Linda Naylor, Monica Curran, and Laura McEachen.
Heather loved playing soccer, volleyball, running, golf and pretty much any other sport and instilled that love in her babies. She was a dedicated Respiratory Therapist at St Thomas Elgin General Hospital and was one of those people fortunate enough to have loved her career. She counted many of her co-workers among her closest friends, in what was an incredible army around her. Heather and her family have been so blessed by this huge network of support, and our gratitude is infinite.

Kathy passed away a hero days after her 70th birthday following a courageous battle with metastatic breast cancer.
She was the favorite sister to Bo (Bonnie) and Jamie (Beth), fun aunt ‘Kath-o-leen’, loving mother to Jennifer and Kristen (PJ), and doting grandmother to Grayson and Caleb.

Kathy grew up in Falls Church, Va. She attended Bishop O’Connell high school and George Mason University. She’s been a resident of Fairfax City for the past 40 years surrounded by neighbors who became great friends. She dedicated 37 years to federal service, with 34 years of service to the U.S. Department of Justice. She retired in 2011 as the Deputy Chief of the FOIA Unit for the Criminal Division.

Kathy enjoyed walking along the Outer Banks beaches, the color blue, spoiling her grandchildren, traveling, lunch dates with friends, and spending time with her family. She loved all of her rescue pets and would have adopted all of the homeless dogs if she could.

She was selfless, caring, independent, and an inspiration to so many.

Cheryl De Los Santos, our beloved mother and Gigi, passed away on March 4, 2022, in Midlothian, TX, at age 66. Cheryl was born on December 8, 1955, in Virginia, to James and Mabel Jones and is the youngest of three children. After high school, Cheryl moved to Texas, attended and graduated college, and began working for the Internal Revenue Service (IRS). Cheryl became a federal agent, for IRS, and then became a federal agent for the U.S. Small Business Administration, Office of the Inspector General. Cheryl retired from the United States Federal Government in 2012. Cheryl was a loving mother of four children, Adam De Los Santos, Olivia Becker, Elizabeth Milosevic, and Jessica De Los Santos. In 2015, she gained her favorite title, Gigi, when her first grandchild was born.

Cheryl was best known for exhibiting strength, raising strong children, and spoiling her four grandchildren. Cheryl had a sassy and loving spirit. Cheryl was a dedicated mother and Gigi and was present for every single important moment and event in her daughters and grandchildren's lives. Cheryl was truly a superwoman.

Cheryl is survived by her daughter, Olivia Becker, her husband, Brandon Becker, and their children, Isabella and Eva Becker; daughter Elizabeth Milosevic, her husband, Dejan Milosevic, and their children, Lara and Luka Milosevic; daughter Jessica De Los Santos and her fiancé Frank Gillett. Cheryl was a loving dog mom to Peanut, Keeper, and Bexar.

Cheryl is preceded in death by her parents, James and Mabel Jones, and son, Adam De Los Santos.

CATRINA C. AQUILINO, ESQ., 34, recently awarded the 2021 Prince George's County Bar Association PRESIDENT'S AWARD, loving daughter of Mike and Jeanne, taken by triple negative breast cancer October 15, 2021. Survived by brothers Charles, Caleb; sister-in-law's, Stacy-Ann, Jessica; niece Alyssa; many loving aunts, uncles, cousins, friends and co-workers.

January 24, 1981 - November 30, 2021

Wife of Jonathan Lewis
Mother of Alida, Farrah, and Elin
Much loved sister, daughter, & friend

We are so thankful for the radiance and joy that Grace brought to all of our lives. Her love of life, of people, the written word, her friendship, her curiosity and spirit of adventure was a gift to the world. Grace met us with generosity, empathy, and welcome. She was brave and bold and full of beauty, and we ache for missing her. For Grace, we say "Thanks be to God!"

Robin Turpin Shea, of Olney, MD, passed away peacefully on February 19, 2021, age 54. Beloved wife, partner, and best friend of Quinlan J. Shea, III for 26 years.

Robin was born in Tampa, Florida and graduated from high school in Summerville, South Carolina. After moving to the Washington, DC area, she worked for a defense contractor and in the energy sector, culminating in the position of Assistant Director at a non-profit K-12 education foundation. Robin was active in her local civic and homeowners' associations and was a state-certified Master Gardner.

The best word to describe Robin is beloved, defined as dearly loved, because to know Robin was to love Robin. In many ways she embodied the southern hospitality of her roots, as she genuinely welcomed new people into her life. She had the incredible knack of making friends wherever she went, whether with staff at local stores and restaurants; acquaintances from many years of world travels; other Washington Capitals fans; or among the Doctors, nurses and fellow patients that journeyed with her for over five years. If you came into Robin's orbit you would feel her pull, because she had the gift of making anyone she spoke to the center of her attention. Even as metastatic breast cancer attacked her body, she always had a sense of humor and ready smile-a real smile that lit up her face and crinkled her eyes-and her laugh was contagious and uplifting. She was steadfast and positive until the end, and occasionally headstrong too, but in a good way.

Robin was a lifelong learner and always open to new experiences, especially when absorbing new locales, cultures, and cuisines in her global travels with Quin. She turned her passion for nature's beauty and gardening into volunteerism as she worked to beautify her neighborhood and the broader community. Robin's love and kindness radiated until the end, and those ripples will endure.

Robin is survived by her father Donald W. Turpin of Summerville, SC, stepmother Peggy; mother Judy A. Lanuti of Ann Arbor, MI, stepfather Daniel; mother-in-law Hedi S. Shea of Chagrin Falls, OH; brother Dennis W. Turpin of Tampa, FL, wife Ruby; sister Amber Henderson of Nashville, TN, husband Harold; sister Melody Dupree of Summerville, SC, husband Steve; brother-in-law Kevin T. Shea, wife Bertha; and sister-in-law Christina S. Lordan of Chagrin Falls, OH, husband Timothy. Loving aunt of Christopher Lordan, Brian Turpin, Sean Lordan, Katarina McKoy, Claire Lordan, Brian Lordan, Connor Lordan, Rebecca Dupree and Rachel Dupree; and devoted Godmother to many special young people.

Caterina Storch, 46 of Tampa passed away on January 26th , 2022 at Moffitt Cancer Center surrounded by her beloved wife, her wonderful family, and dearest friends. Born in London and living in multiple locations in Italy, Caterina made her way as a child to the United States. Well versed in multiple languages, class, and grace, she was a force to be reckoned with. The way that she lived her life and her courageous fight with stage 4 cancer is something that would have brought the strongest to their knees. To say that she was an idol to many is an understatement. Her life was centered around her wife, their real estate brokerage, and helping to make anyone in her path strive for and attain excellence. As she always said, "hope is not a strategy". Simply put, she was the epitome of The American Dream, and lived to honor her mother who passed six years to the day from cancer. She is survived by the love of her life and wife, Amy M. Storch, her fur babies, Tori, Dudley, and Cooper, her brother Stefano Caravello, father Giovanni Marcello Caravello, along with her beloved niece, nephews and family all over the world. Caterina's fire will never be extinguished and her light will burn brightly indefinitely within each of us. "Always in all ways, my love..."

Jennifer Marie Flaig, age 52, died February 2, 2022, in Washington, UT. Jennifer was born on February 7, 1969 in Chicago, Ill to Judy Janeski Lamph and Clynt Ivor Lamph, deceased 1976, and adopted by Paul Bowen in 1979. She married Phil Eaton in 1997, later divorced. She married Steve Flaig in Zion National Park, UT on March 12, 2016.

Jen was a convertible niece. She loved having the sun on her face and the wind in her hair. Jennifer ran several marathons and half marathons and raised significant monies for cancer in 60-mile walks. She had more shoes than Nordstrom’s and several different careers that she loved and did well at. She obtained a double bachelor’s degree in Political Science and History from Central Michigan University, Mt Pleasant, MI. She was a CMP, CMM Certified Meeting and Incentive Travel Professional, and most recently, she obtained licensing as a Social Service Worker. Jennifer was a valued member of Crimson Counseling, a local agency providing assistance to special needs clients and families.

Jennifer’s addresses have been in cool places, some literally, like South Porcupine, ON, CA and some akin, like Las Vegas. Marrying Steve Flaig was tantamount to her catching the ‘gold ring’. She has shared her love with several dogs, cats, birds, guinea pigs and of late with Dazi the wire fox terrier and Ben and Gilda, Bedlington Terriers. She found beauty in the many friendships she made with acquaintances where she lived, worked and traveled. She was a devout Christian throughout her life with a firm belief in God and His love for her. She shared that with everyone she met through her kindness and joy in life. Three months after her marriage to Steve, she found a lump in her right breast, after being told numerous years that she had dense breasts but was not offered an ultrasound to find the proverbial needle in the haystack. She became a very strong proponent of women/men getting ultrasounds and would like you to champion the same. Ultimately, she had numerous rounds of debilitating chemotherapy after a double mastectomy and 5 beautiful years of love, work and travel. She was a Fanilow and was able to meet personally with Barry Manilow after his December 4 concert at the Westgate in Las Vegas, NV.

She is survived by her husband, Steve Flaig; son in law, Chris (Tara) Flaig; grandsons: Oliver and Lewis, LaVerkin, UT; her parents, Paul and Judy Bowen of Las Vegas, NV; brother, Matthew Bowen, Las Vegas; niece, Alysia Bowen of Mesa, AZ; aunt & godmother, Ethel Janeski, Alpena, MI; aunt, Joanne (Wayne) Hostynski of Bonita Springs, FL; and cousins: Kendra (Paul) Hofelich, Novi, MI, and Kristen (Dan) Allgor, Warren, NJ; aunt, Joyce (Jack) McCoy, Alpena, MI; and cousin, Jeremy McCoy, Chicago, Il; aunt, Janice Janeski, Alpena, MI; Carol (Don) Osga DeWitt, MI; cousins: Christine Osga, Lansing, MI, and Cindy(John) Slack, Dewitt, MI. Also mourning her loss are sisters-in-law: Deb (Fred) Wyss of Rapid City, SD, Karla (Barry) Hannant of San Antonio, TX and Michael Flaig, in Las Vegas, NV, as well as numerous other cousins. She was predeceased by her biological father, Clynt; and uncle & godfather, Jerry Janeski.

Danielle was diagnosed in January of 2016 with Breast Cancer. Once she found out she was determined to fight, and to fight hard. February 2016, she had a double mastectomy. She did a series of chemo medication, and everything was looking good. She was in remission for 2 years! A few months after she got the news it spread to her liver. Once again, she fought and this time even harder. She tried chemo after chemo that helped stabilize the growth. When those chemo's stopped working, she tried every trial drug she was approved for. Things worked for almost 4 years until around October of 2021 when she had severe side effects. This lead Danielle and her team to decide to stop the trial, but because of her side effects they waited a little bit to before trying something else. In this time her insurance company would not approve her new treatment. About a month later things get sorted out she goes for treatment but to her surprise they admit her to the ER because her blood work was concerning. She stays a week in the hospital where she started getting weak and not being able to walk. She also started losing vision in her left eye. Her doctors order an MRI where they find it has now spread to her brain. We meet with the radiation doctor and set up her treatments, she needed 10. We also met with a Neuro brain doctor that explained exactly what all this meant. She had let us know it has spread to her spinal fluid as well and because of the severity, there was no treatments that can change the prognosis. She let us know typically about 3-4 months. She didn't care she was determined to fight so she did. She made it to 4 treatments before being hospitalized for excruciating pain, they also let us know there was nothing else the hospital could do and they had to move her to hospice. She was moved on 1/26/2022 where she died peacefully on 1/29/2022. She died at 37, 1 week before her 38th birthday.

Page Williams Jones, 59, passed away on Tuesday, January 25th, 2022 surrounded by family. She was born on May 4th, 1962 in Izmir, Turkey, to the late Howard Lewis and Jane Williams. She was a Kindergarten and Pre-K teacher at Oak Grove United Methodist Church. She also volunteered at the Norfolk Animal Care Center.

After growing up in Izmir, Page and her family returned to Richmond, VA, in 1968. Page graduated from Douglas Freeman High School in Richmond, VA, and Converse College, Spartanburg, SC. She married John Edward Jones on June 6th, 1987. Left to cherish her memory are her husband of 34 years, John; her daughters Kyra Selph (Ryan), Sydney Jones (Arjun), and Keri Jones; her grandson Bryant; her sister Carter Hall. She leaves behind numerous extended family members and close friends, who will miss her warm and caring spirit.

Page was a treasure and anchor in our lives. She had such a zest for life and lit up any room she entered. She loved music, concerts, watching sports, taking weekend adventures with her husband, and spending time with her daughters and family. She took great joy in teaching and guiding her students, she often had former students and parents remember her from years ago. She was loved by all and will be dearly missed.

Kathleen Marie McCaffrey; age 59 of Rochester Hills, Michigan passed away January 11, 2022 surrounded by her family. Beloved wife of Dan; loving mother of Megan (Jeff) Ewert, Thomas (Michelle) McCaffrey, Clare (Aaron Meek) McCaffrey; proud Nana of three; adored daughter of the late John and Elizabeth Foley; cherished sister of John (Laura) Foley, Kevin (the late Tina) Foley, Paul (Kim) Foley and Maribeth (Chris) Tabaka; loved Daughter-in-law of Deloris and the late Paul McCaffrey; dear sister-in-law of Eugene (Lisa Marie) McCaffrey, Mary (Tony) Di Franco, Bruce (Gemma) McCaffrey, Tim McCaffrey, Barb Felten, Lea Ann (Travis) Ouret; aunt of many treasured Nieces and Nephews.

Kathleen enjoyed spending time with her family and grandchildren; Jack McCaffrey (13), Elizabeth Ewert (3), and Mara McCaffrey (11 months) and friends. Besides being around family, she enjoyed traveling, cooking, reading, and spending time with many very close friends. Born in Detroit, MI and resided in Rochester Hills for over 50 years, graduating from Rochester High School in 1980. Kathleen worked as HR and Payroll manager at Notre Dame Preparatory School and Marist Academy where she befriended many and advocated for all.

Kathleen will truly be missed as her life graced so many while remaining humble and sincere.

It is with great sadness and an empty heart, that we announce the passing of Brandi Nicole Dalton Riber.

She slipped from our grasp on December 27, 2021. Brandi was born in Xenia, Ohio on November 1, 1974. If you knew Brandi, you knew this quote was true of her. "They whispered to her; you cannot withstand the storm. I am the storm, she whispered back." As a small child and into her teen years, we knew we had a spirited child on our hands. Whatever she did, she gave it her all. From a small child learning to ride her bike with two skinned knees and elbows, she never gave up. We witnessed her on the soccer field in high school after being battered by an opponent, when she had finally had enough, she took care of the situation. As she stood over the player, she raised her arms in victory after finally winning the ball from her and stopping the abuse. We did not know right away the tenacity her spirit would hold...and how it would serve her in later life.

Brandi became an R.N. and found her forever job with Florida Cancer Specialists. This truly was her life
calling, working and caring for patients for over 16 years in Fort Myers, Florida. Little did she know that she would become a patient herself. In 2010, with her nearly 3-year-old daughter in tow, she was diagnosed with Breast Cancer. Finally, after enduring several surgeries and repeated chemotherapy she was deemed cancer-free nearly 5 years later. However, just short of those 5 years, cancer returned with a vengeance.

In 2014 she was re-diagnosed with MBC (Metastatic Breast Cancer) and would bear more chemotherapy and six trial drug studies, as she endured at least seven recurrences. The spirited child in her continued to fight until her last ounce of strength left her. Brandi proved to be an example of determination and fearlessness for everyone who knew her, especially for her patients to whom she felt a connection like no other. As a mother, she fought so hard and discreetly so that Morgan could lead a normal life.

Brandi leaves her love legacy to her precious daughter, Morgan, who was her first reason to live and fight. Brandi takes part of her loving parent's hearts with her, Jerry and Terry Dalton, brother Blake Dalton (Liza), several cousins and extended family members and friends who loved her. She was grateful to her former husband Adam, for his endless care, love, and support in the last years of her fight, along with the many friends, patients, and co-workers who helped her along her way. We cannot thank the staff of doctors enough, especially Dr. W. Harwin, along with his colleagues, beloved friends/nurses, Diane Cope and Sandy Leahy, and many others at Florida Cancer Specialists who worked tirelessly to add days to her life.

If you are so inclined, the family requests any memorials should be given to METAvivor.org. Throughout the six study drugs made possible by more funding, Brandi was given more time with us and gave hope to many others fighting this horrible disease. Brandi lifted up so many others with her grace and strength which provided them with the hope they needed to face their challenges. METAvivor is the only organization that solely funds MBC research through a scientific peer-review process. 100% of all donations go into MBC-specific research grants. METAvivor is a 501(c)(3) non-profit organization, and all donations are tax-deductible.
Stage IV needs more. Let's find a cure.

The world has lost a bright force that won’t soon be forgotten. Brandi knew she lived a gifted life and she will continue to bless us with the love and memories we shared with her. Her illuminating light will always shine through her daughter's eyes. When you see a sunflower, please think of her.

“I'll love you forever, I'll like you for
always, As long as I’m living my
baby you’ll be.”

From the book:
LOVE YOU FOREVER
by Robert Munsch

Courtney Sasser McCollum 50, of Decatur passed away Thursday, December 23, 2021 at her residence. She was born, July 21, 1971 in Huntsville, Alabama to James Donald Sasser and Linda Kennington Sasser.

Courtney graduated from Virgil I. Grissom High School and received a bachelor's degree in Social Work From the University of North Alabama.

Sharing her love for reading with thousands of school children across the state, Courtney worked for 11 years as a Field Representative with Scholastic Bookfairs. Courtney had a servant's heart, serving in various volunteer and service roles in the community. Being very family oriented, Courtney enjoyed spending time with her family and her bluetick coonhounds, Lucy and Summitt. Her hobbies included running, cooking, cake decorating, crafting, and following Auburn Football. Her passion was her family. She loved watching them play sports and excel in the classroom and in life.
In 2000 Courtney met her husband Tim. On June 5, 2001 they were married on the beach in Duck, North Carolina. Together Tim and Courtney raised three sons: Mitchell 27, Griffin 24, and Carter 19.

Courtney is survived by her husband, Tim McCollum; sons, Mitchell, Griffin, and Carter McCollum; brother, Donnie Sasser (Jacqueline); nephews, James, and Owen Sasser; mother Linda Sasser. She was preceded in death by her father, J. Donald Sasser.

Rebecca passed away in her home on November 29, 2021, at 6:35pm. Surrounded lovingly by family, we toasted and celebrated a life richly and bravely lived. And live she did. Despite her diagnosis of metastatic breast cancer, Rebecca never identified as a cancer victim. Rather, she identified as a strong woman, mother, wife, sister, niece, cousin, adventurer, and friend. While receiving treatment she traveled the world, hiked mountains, and always loved those around her fiercely, especially her family. Rebecca did not have a mean bone in her body, and everybody knew it and loved her for it. She would tell us “don’t judge anyone as you never know what they are going through, what they are fighting against...just accept them.” No one would deny that she made those around her better people.

On the first night of Hanukkah - the day before she passed - four generations of family surrounded Rebecca with music, song, and love. As the night concluded, her beloved nephew gave her a kiss on the forehead, at which point she tenderly whispered her last words, “sweet, boy.”

Rebecca’s kindness, empathy, and generosity manifested in many ways. Not the least of which were her efforts to increase the support received by those facing breast cancer. She was keenly aware that not everyone would have the same strong support network that blessed her. For example, Rebecca led a team of friends and family who helped raise over $30,000 for the Young Survival Coalition, an international organization focusing on women ages 40 and under who are diagnosed with breast cancer. Continuing in this vein, Rebecca urged that, in lieu of flowers, donations in her memory be made to METAvivor, an organization dedicated to increasing awareness of advanced breast cancer, and equity in research and patient support.

Linda Wooldridge Collins, born September 17, 1950 in Fort Worth, TX to Anne and Elmer Wooldridge passed away Friday November 5, 2021, after a short but brave battle against breast cancer. Linda graduated from Arlington Heights High School in Fort Worth, TX and The University of Texas in Austin, TX. She was preceded in death by her husband, James T. Collins, and her parents, Anne and Elmer. Linda was survived by her daughter, son- in law, and granddaughter Claire, Bryan, and Finley Lester, as well as her daughter, son- in law, and granddaughter Wynne, Zac, and Nora Sherman, step son, Cliff Collins, sisters Sue, Betty, and Jane, as well as several nieces, nephews, and cousins.

Linda loved her family, friends, and the countless pets that she adored throughout her life. Linda was fortunate enough to accomplish many of her life goals, such as having a home in the countryside with many animals and traveling to destinations far and wide, including her ultimate destination of Patagonia, where she practiced her life-long hobby of photography. During the pandemic, Linda used her sewing skills to make quilts for her family members and countless face masks for local organizations as well as friends and family.

Alisa Lynn Lehman, 63, passed away at home on Monday, 11/8/21, in Glen Ellyn, IL, from Metastatic Breast Cancer. This was her second bout with the disease after about a 5-year period between being declared cancer free and it returning in a metastasized state in 2016. It manifested itself by attacking several of her organs and bones but its worst impacts were shown to be in her liver, which ultimately failed and lead to her untimely death. She faced her final days bravely and was at peace in the end. Alongside her medical care providers, Alisa did everything she could to prolong her time with her loved ones. The family feels like she successfully added several years to her life with the steps she took to manage her own self-care and lifestyle in addition to the unbelievable care she received from the Greater Chicago area medical community. Specific thanks to Edwards-Elmhurst Health, Northwestern Medicine, UChicago Medicine, as well as Aetna and BCBS for their devotion to their patients and whom all had a major hand in sustaining her well beyond expectations. She spent her final weeks at home, in Hospice care, keeping her as comfortable as possible. She was surrounded by her immediate family through her last breaths.

Alisa is survived by her husband, Joel, and daughters Kassandra (Kassi), 28, and Kerrilyn (Kerri), 26. Alisa and Joel were just a week short of their 34th wedding anniversary. They spent many happy years together raising the kids and traveling fairly widely in the US and Canada and to a lesser extent overseas when possible. With her second diagnosis in 2016, the family took extra care to travel with her to some of her bucket list places around the world including Thailand, Vietnam, Cambodia, Costa Rica, Banff, Italy, and many great spots in the US while also staying as close as possible to family and friends.

Alisa was born in 1957 in Brooklyn, NY to her surviving and devoted parents Dr. Robert and Roberta Weller and was raised on Long Island in North Woodmere, NY where she lived until getting married to Joel at 30 years old. Alisa is also survived by her younger brothers Bruce (Shari) and David (Karen) Weller, their children Alex (Rachel), Jessica, Maddy, Emma, Zach, and Mia, and her aunts Marylin Losek and Ruth Fatt. Her grandparents, Bella and Benjamin Weller and Alice and Alfred Fatt, all predeceased her, as did her beloved uncles Herb Weller, Arnie Fatt, and Alvin Losek and Aunt Vera Weller.

Alisa had a passion for life and lived it fully. She maintained her adventurous spirit throughout her entire life; from traveling to Australia and New Zealand for 6 months in her 20’s, to undertaking all sorts of active hobbies such as SCUBA, horseback riding, hang gliding, rock climbing, and more. She graduated from Hewlett HS in 1976 and went on to earn a BA in Communications from OSU in 1980. She then went on to earn a higher technical degree immediately after graduating college and settled into an early career as a computer help desk analyst working for EF Hutton, Shearson, and eventually Lehman Brothers, though without benefit of any relationship to the name. Later when she and Joel were having the girls, she left the workforce to be a stay-at-home Mother. When the kids got old enough to need less of her time, she came back into the workforce in a new way, by opening a few of her own businesses: Zoodle, her Face Painting and Party Entertainment company and Wee Whimsey World, where she created and sold her magical clay figurines and other artwork, all while serving as property manager for Great Blue, LLC.

It’s hard to know one’s legacy so soon after leaving us but for Alisa, two are already clear: 1) her daughters Kassi and Kerri - she put everything into raising them to be well educated, wonderful, contributing, productive, and caring adults; what more could a parent ask for? and, 2) her Art – she sold and left behind an extraordinary collection of carefully crafted handmade whimsical creatures, paintings, and jewelry. One of her final requests was that we share her creations with family and friends.

Another of Alisa’s final wishes was to leverage her experience to lend support to advancing the cures for cancer by supporting METAvivor, an organization that funds Stage 4 Metastatic Breast Cancer (MBC) research. She carefully chose this particular organization because of the contributions it has made to MBC research and knowing that 100% of donations made to METAvivor go toward funding research. 115 people in the US die each day from just MBC, and so little of all the funding for cancer research finds its way to this, her own particular disease. METAvivor remains the sole US organization dedicated to awarding annual stage 4 breast cancer research. In lieu of flowers and other gifts, please visit their website and kindly make even a small donation in her memory: https://www.metavivor.org/

Due to the Pandemic, the family has decided to postpone formally celebrating her life until it is safe to do so in a manner that will honor her properly. The family will send out communications regarding the venue(s) and timing at a later date, possibly not until spring of 2022.

The family warmly appreciates all your prayers, well wishes, support, and love shared before her passing and beyond. We can’t say enough how humbled we are by the love and caring we received from our network of friends, family, and medical providers throughout this journey.

With Love and Respectfully, the Lehman and Weller Families

Lauren Tate passed away Thursday, October 21st, 2021 after a courageous battle with cancer, surrounded by the love of her family, in the comfort of her home in Cypress, Texas.

Lauren was born May 3, 1988 in Galveston, Texas. She graduated from Ball High School and went on to become a Medical Laboratory Technician at HCA North Cypress (North Cypress Medical Center) for 10 years.

Lauren’s light and energy that she brought into every room will be remembered long after her passing. Lauren had many things she was passionate about, but her family was her top priority and her love for them was apparent in everything she did. The following were all a close second, in no particular order: Texas, Whataburger, Mexican Food, Cruising, and Disney. She was always looking to take on new adventures at the drop of the hat.

Lauren is survived by her wife, Felicia Tate; her children, Greyson and Willow Tate; her parents, Barton and Yvonne Tate; her sister, Emily Tate; her brother, Barton Tate Jr.; and her Mawmaw and Sidekick, Doris Gartman.

Nicole (Niki) Lindgren Moran, 45, passed away on October 5, 2021, a victim of Metastatic Breast Cancer, in Burke, VA. She is survived by her husband, Joe Moran, of Burke, VA, her parents, Randahl and Anita Lindgren, of Burke, VA, and her brother, Dr. Kjell Lindgren, of League City, TX, as well as many extended family members, close friends and colleagues.

Niki was born in Shawnee Mission, Kansas on April 15, 1976. She graduated in 1994 from Robinson Secondary School in Fairfax County, VA, where she was active in theatre. It was here that the seeds were planted for her career as a performer. She graduated from James Madison University in Harrisonburg, VA with a BA in Theatre in 1998.

In 1999 she was ready to ply her trade at the famous improvisation theatre venues in Chicago, IL. Soon, her off-beat sense of humor, at the Improv Olympics and Annoyance Theatre would hone her improv skills and she won a slot to perform with the famous Second City touring Improv comedy troupe and on The Second City stage. While living in Chicago, she supplemented her performing salary with a "day job" at Centerprise Advisors as an office manager.

Next, she decided to test her marketability in Hollywood and moved to California in 2009. In California, Niki round a completely new career. A 2015 MA degree in Clinical Psychology from Antioch University in Los Angeles netted her employment as a therapist at Klean Treatment Centers. She would later open her own private therapy practice as a Licensed Marriage and Family therapist in East Hollywood in 2020.

Her relationship with her future husband was rekindled in California after a long distance relationship that began in high school. Joe and Niki were married on June 9th, 2018 in Northern Virginia. They began their marriage in East Hollywood, CA. Niki's three-year breast cancer battle concluded for the last seven months living in Northern Virginia near both Niki's parents and Joe's parents, Patrick and Mary Moran.

She was a bright light in the darkness, who's smile was a dominant feature mentioned by nearly everyone that contacted the family since her passing. A Celebration of Life Service will be held at Lord of Life Lutheran Church in Fairfax, Virginia on November 6, 2021 at 10:30 am. The service may be attended in person or live-streamed at www.lordoflifeva.org.

In lieu of flowers, the family suggests donations to METAvivor to support the fight against metastatic breast cancer.

Pam was born July 2, 1971. She was a force to be reckoned with. She loved her family and had many friends. She was generous, thoughtful and caring. She was an Air Force Veteran, daughter, wife, sister, Aunt and friend. She passed away March 15, 2001. She is dearly missed by many.

Engie Mokhtar 4/7/1971 - 4/13/2021
Was diagnosed with breast cancer in 2010, then in 2015 it went to her brain, bones and then her liver.
Her motto was: " I strive to live in the moment and grab hold of joy wherever I can"
Engie enjoyed life, any time she had the energy to be active and have fun she did. Until the last minute Engie, her family and friends were all hoping that research would produce a miracle chemo or medicine to save her and save all who suffer like her,
from that beast.

Beth Ann Sperry (Humrich), 42, passed away August 30, 2021, in Jacksonville, Florida from metastatic breast cancer. She handled her illness with poise and grace.

Beth grew up in Fowlerville, Michigan and attended Eastern Michigan University where she earned a Bachelor’s degree in Special Education in 2001. She moved to California in 2002 and completed her Master’s degree in Education in 2006 at San Diego State University. After six years in California, Beth moved to Lakeland, FL where she met her future husband, Ben Sperry. They married on March 16, 2012, in Ponte Vedra, FL. Their son Casen was born in February 2013, and daughter Cali was adopted in December 2017.

Beth taught ESE for 21 years, half of her life. For the last decade, she taught at Duval Charter School at Baymeadows and Coastal. She spent most of her years teaching Kindergarten and ESE, inspiring countless students, and fellow teachers, who have shared that she touched every heart she encountered. “Just her presence made our lives a little bit brighter each and every time we saw her.”

One of her students, Sarriah, recently wrote, “Look where I am now…8th Grade! Because of you. You helped me become a better person, helped me be respectful….I love you Mrs. Sperry, you were my favorite teacher…thank you for your time with us.”

Beth’s love of children and teaching came second only to the love she had for her family. She enjoyed spending quality time with her family, hunting for shark’s teeth at the beach, exploring new hiking trails, doing yoga, visiting the mountains, and crafting.


Beth is remembered with love by her husband, Ben Sperry (Jacksonville, FL), children Casen and Cali Sperry, parents Marv and Jean Humrich (Webberville, MI) and Diane Comstock (Jacksonville, FL), sister Alane Humrich (Gainesville, FL), Kathleen and Peter Munson (Lakeland, FL), Charles and Joan Sperry (Saginaw, MI), Josh and Tiffany Sperry (Tampa, FL), and a host of other family members and friends.

Beth had such a beautiful and gentle presence. She was an incredible mother, wife, daughter, sister, friend, and teacher and truly an extraordinary and authentic human being. She exemplified love, patience, kindness, and compassion in every thought, word, and action. The world was a better place with her in it, because of her genuine love for others and our natural world. Her light will shine on forever in her children and all who knew and loved her.


Do all the good you can, by all the means you can, in all the ways you can, in all the places you can, at all the times you can, to all the people you can, as long as ever you can.

~ John Wesley

A private memorial will be held at a later date. Donations in Beth’s memory may be made to METAvivor, the sole U.S. organization dedicated to awarding annual stage 4 breast cancer research.

Latonya Wilson, beloved daughter, sister and aunt, tireless advocate for metastatic breast cancer patients passed away surrounded by her family and friends on Saturday, August 7th. Latonya Wilson was born 23 October 1975 in Sumter South Carolina to Lucille Wilson and the late James Wilson. She confessed her life to Christ at an early age at Emmanuel Church in Sumter South Carolina. She was proceeded in death by her father, brother Isaiah Wilson, grandmother Maebell Richardson and Eva McCoy, grandfathers George Smith and James Slater; and great grandmother Rebecca Cocklin. In addition to her mother she is survived by her sister Malanda & Ellery Williams of Fayetteville NC, brothers James Lavern & Polly Wilson of Jacksonville NC and Christopher Wilson of Columbia SC. Her Godmother Patricia Brunson and God Brother Quincy Brunson.

Latonya never had kids of her own because God had a greater plan for her. Throughout her life she was not only the best Aunt in the world but a surrogate Mom for her nieces and nephews. It was as if God knew instantly how big her heart would be and the needs of her nieces and nephews before they were even born. Latonya truly loved them all as our own children. They include Tashawn Wilson of Sumter SC. Deante Wilson of Fort Gordon GA, Marques Perry and Jaquan Perry of Fayetteville NC, Isaiah Wilson of Fayetteville NC and Austin Wilson of Columbia SC.

Latonya was a 1993 graduate of Sumter High School. She joined the Army in 1993 right after high school quickly earning promotions and ultimately becoming a Noncommissioned Officer. Latonya serviced honorably for 12 years before getting out to pursuing a career as a government contractor in Afghanistan and Kuwait. While in Kandahar, Afghanistan in 2006, Latonya helped to create the "Love Walk" of Freemasonry by becoming the chartered Worthy Matron of Rising Vega Chapter No. 181. She was later, personally selected by Oklahoma Jurisdiction senior leadership and elevated to the highest level within District 15 as the District Deputy Grand Worthy Matron (DDGWM). During her "Love Walk" she inspired, motivated, encouraged, taught and lead hundreds of women in the true characteristics of the biblical heroines as well as exemplified the true meaning of sisterhood.

Latonya was diagnosed with breast cancer in December 2007. During treatment Latonya realized that there was not a lot of aid available at that time to assist people going through chemo treatments. Remaining true to herself and her community Latonya decided to fight and fight she did. She founded a breast cancer foundation called Cherished Hearts. Through her foundation she sought to educate both women and men about breast cancer. (Isaiah 58:10 NLT) “Feed the hungry and help those in trouble. Then your light will shine out from the darkness, and the darkness around you will be as bright as noon.” Latonya let her light shine wherever she went. April 2016 Latonya’s breast cancer progressed to stage4 but rather than except the hand that was dealt her Latonya continued her fight. She joined breast cancer research organizations that sought to bring awareness to the rates in which people of color was contracting aggressive breast cancer such as triple negative. Rather than be a victim of breast cancer Latonya chose to become an advocate for herself and others. In her heart she knew her mission and the reason why God placed her in this struggle to help others. She was she was obedient to God’s. She often told her family and friends that she knew that God would heal her rather on this side or the other. That God had taken care of her on this side and she knew that he would take care of her on the other side.

Candace Reed Watkins Pearson passed away at home on March 22, 2020 after a 20 month battle with Metastatic Breast Cancer.
Candy was the sweetest, most amazing woman that her husband, Tim Pearson, could every wish for! She was passionate about her family Reed Watkins, Maggie Watkins (Jacob Wall), Angela Reed Yakel (Craig Yakel), Christy Reed Simpson (Chris Simpson), stepsons Daniel Pearson, John-Michael Pearson and her parents George Reed and Margaret Reed.
Candy was an Environmental Engineer who worked at CDM-Smith for 13 years. She was a certified Professional Engineer and licensed in several states. She had an incredible work ethic and devotion to her profession.
Candy had a beautiful smile and laugh and it was usually contagious. She enjoyed travelling and we had the opportunity to travel to many places including St Martin (multiple times), Israel, California and many adventures with the Boerners (Brian Boerner, Dorcas Kircher Boerner), Pauls (Beth Paul, Greg Paul) and Whittens (Sherry Whitten, Mike Michael Whitten). She was even planning a big 60th birthday bash to see the Northern Lights.
She never let cancer define her and she was a fierce fighter. She said that she wasn't given an expiration date and would live accordingly, and she did!
Candy was a voracious reader and that is where you might find her in her down time. It was not uncommon for her to read 3-4 books a week.
Candy was passionate about Scouting, both Boy Scouts and Girl Scouts and Adult Leadership Training (Woodbadge). She volunteered for many hours of scouting activities.
Candy loved to cook and took great pride in perfecting family recipes handed down through the generations. Her baking was the absolute best - none could top her cookies, cakes and pies!
We all miss her terribly.

Tracy was born February 11, 1957. She left us on January 22, 2021. She left behind her husband, Lynn, her daughter from a previous marriage, Camille as well as her twin daughter and son Emily and Jeffery. She is survived by a brother, Charlie Reece, husband of Cindy living in Hillsboro, Kansas, Kelly and Rick Siebert and Julie and Johnathon Jimenez. She is also survived by many aunts, uncles, nieces and nephews. She was preceded in death by her mother and stepfather Laqueta and Ed Siebert, father Charles (Chuck) Reece, grandparents Helen and Floyd Cunningham and Agnes and Roy Reece.

In 1996 she found the love of her life, Lynn. She and Lynn were married on September 7, 1996 and they enjoyed almost 25 years together.

She was a faithful member of St. Mary’s Episcopal Church in Edmond, Ok.

One of her favorite activities was preparing soups for families in need. Two of her favorites were Chicken noodle and potato. She continued do this right up to 2 months before her passing. Whether it was soups or cookies or pies, she always took pride in being able to provide for others. Many would say providing for other was here calling.
Another source of continuing pride was her 19 year old twins, Jeffery and Emily. She was especially proud of them entering Oklahoma University in fall of 2020. One of here great regrets was that she would be unable to see them graduate from college or see Emily walk down the aisle at her wedding.

She was diagnosed with stage 4 metastatic breast cancer on Christmas eve of 2014. Even though she had started mammograms earlier than normal it was too late. It has metastasized into her bones. She underwent the usual array of therapy maintaining her strength and positive outlook throughout.

Tracy, You will be missed greatly.

Denise LaGasse Brown, 57, of Valrico Florida passed away peacefully on Saturday August 21, 2021 surrounded by her husband and children. She was the Loving wife of her husband Jeffrey, Loving Mother of Kristen, Nathan and Derek, Loving stepmother of Dan and Jessica, Loving Mema of Brianna and Aubrey and loving sister to Doreen and Donna. Denise loved her family unconditionally and will continue to live through her legacy, her children, forever. She spread joy and kindness wherever she went always sacrificing her time to help others .Denise was a beautiful person inside and out with an infectious smile that would light up a room...she was an amazing woman, a middle school teacher and great friend to many, that positively touched so many people of all ages. She bravely fought metastatic breast cancer for 9 months with incredible strength and courage. She will be dearly missed and always remembered.

Dec 22, 1949 - Dec 26, 2018 OKLAHOMA CITY Nancy gave up her fight against breast cancer on Dec. 26th. She was a vibrant woman with a passion for her family, golf, traveling, and the arts. She was a retired lab technician from the OMRF where she worked for more than 30 years. She is survived by husband, John; daughters, Elyzabeth and Missy; son, Reagan; grandchildren, Ellie and Johnny; brothers, Vince and Bill; and her dear friend, Connie.

Pamela Joy Parrish, 72 of Orlando, Florida, died peacefully on July 18th, 2021 in Cornerstone Hospice House. She bravely faced Stage IV Metastatic Breast Cancer for over 7 years.

Pam was born and raised in Florida. As a youth, she was active in her church choir and held a national position in the International Order of the Rainbow for Girls. As a Rainbow Girl, she was honored with a trip to New York for the World's Fair, an experience that sparked her love of the city. Pam received her Bachelor's (Distributive & Business Education) and Master's (Guidance & Counselor Education, 1975) Degrees from the University of South Florida. She began her career in education as a distributive education teacher and high school occupational specialist (5 years). She then excelled as a school counselor in Manatee County, FL for the next 30 years where she served as the guidance department head, school testing coordinator, and master scheduler. After spending the bulk of her career leading the Lincoln Memorial Middle School (Palmetto, FL) guidance team she was entrusted to co-lead the opening of Carlos Haile Middle and Dan Nolan Middle Schools in Lakewood Ranch (Bradenton, FL). She thrived in her role as a counselor and often said the middle school years were the most enjoyable to witness; she considered it a great privilege to play a role in the formative years of so many that passed through the schools in which she served. Pam retired from the state of Florida in 2006 and continued in guidance for 5 years in Hartwell, Georgia (Hart County High and Middle). In Hartwell, she met and married her late husband, Donald Meck. Pam and Don decided to move back to Florida in 2013 so they could be closer to family in the Orlando area. Their happiest days in recent years were spent at Disney World with each other and Pam's family.

Pam's greatest joy was raising her daughters, Miriam and Tiffany, and the pride she took in their respective educational and career accomplishments was known to many. That delight was extended to her grandchildren, and she eagerly and optimistically strived to reach milestones in their development.

Preceding Pam in death are her parents, George Quinton Morford and Mary Louise (Johnson). Her husband of over 20 years, and father to her children, Joseph Horace Parrish of Parrish, FL died in 2003. She was recently widowed by Donald Wilbur Meck (m. Dec 2010) of Lorain, OH, who passed away in April of 2021.

Pam is survived by her daughters, Miriam Parrish (Mark Mattingly) of St. Louis, MO and Tiffany Parrish (Peter Klomp) of Orlando, FL. She is also survived by 3 grandchildren: Hunter Parrish, Amelia Kelly, and Imogen Klomp and 4 step grandchildren: Caitlin, Avery, Chase, and Addison Mattingly.

Originally diagnosed with and treated for breast cancer in 2002, her cancer returned in 2013 and by 2014 Pam was diagnosed as Stage IV Metastatic. As avid advocates for metastatic breast cancer research, Pam’s family would appreciate memorial contributions to METAvivor. Please dedicate your donation in memory of Pam Parrish by visiting https://donate.metavivor.org/PamParrish

A graveside memorial will be held in Parrish, Florida at a later date.

Kimberly “Kim” Cesarek of Burnsville, MN died on June 2, 2021, at age 42. She died as she lived, on her terms, in her home while holding the hand of her husband, Dustin. She lived the last 9 years of her life with Metastatic Breast Cancer (MBC).

Kim was born and raised in West Newton, PA. She graduated from Duquesne University in 2003 with a Doctorate in Pharmacy. She spent her career as a pharmacist working for Walgreens until her health forced her to leave her career behind. It was at Walgreens in 2009 that Kim met Dustin. From their first date they became immediately inseparable.

However, Kim eventually met the love of her life in October 2011 when their daughter, Reagan, was born. She loved being a mom with every fiber of her being. When Kim was diagnosed with MBC on July 16, 2012, she and Dustin decided to focus on the joy of their new family by getting married, which they did on September 16, 2012.

Aside from being a devout Pittsburgh Steelers fan, Kim was also Catholic and credited her grandmother, whom she loved dearly, as a constant in her early faith formation – a faith that became a foundation for the strength and positivity so many found inspiring later in Kim’s life.

Kim did not ask for the path she found herself on but embraced it wholeheartedly. Kim loved the sound of ocean waves crashing on the beach. She loved Disney and Harry Potter. She seemed to know the lyrics to every song. She loved cheese pizza and powdered sugar donuts. She loved her friends. Kim loved each day she was blessed with, no matter how difficult her cancer made it, because being able to watch Reagan grow up was Kim’s favorite blessing.

Kim’s work ethic and advocacy as a pharmacist translated well into her life with cancer. She loved being a resource to fellow thrivers and volunteered with various support organizations in the Twin Cities. Kim enthusiastically raised money, served on planning committees, and gave her voice to the MBC community.

Kim is survived by her husband Dustin, and her daughter Reagan, to whom Kim was the star in their sky, and many other family, friends, and admirers. Kim is predeceased by too many friends and family who were taken too soon by metastatic cancer.

Patricia A. (Korczynski) Omilak, 70, of Royersford, Pennsylvania, passed away peacefully on Friday, June 11, 2021 surrounded by her daughters. Born on February 13, 1951 in Norristown, she was the daughter of the late Joseph and Rita (Shellenberger) Korczynski. She was the loving wife of the late John J. Omilak, Jr., with whom she shared 46 years of marriage before his passing in 2020.

Patricia was a graduate of Bishop Kenrick High School in Norristown, PA. She went on to work as an office manager for many years. She loved taking trips to casinos, where she could be found playing the slot machines. Pat’s favorite thing to do was spend time with her three grandchildren. Patricia will be remembered for her unending love and devotion to her husband and soulmate Jack.

Patricia and her husband Jack's primary goal in life was to ensure their girls had more than they did growing up. They took great pride in providing their girls with every opportunity life presented.

Patricia is survived by her daughters: Kelly, wife of Teresa Omilak, of Douglassville, PA and Katie, wife of Mark Speiss Jr., of Islip Terrace, NY; three grandchildren: Mark III, Casey and Avery; and siblings: Joseph Korczynski, Arthur Korczynski, Dennis Korczynski, and Kathleen Cosenza; and numerous nieces and nephews.

Sue Habersmith, age 62, of Sarasota, Florida, passed away after a 5.5 year battle with metastatic breast cancer. She is survived by her children, Nick Habersmith of Sherwood, Arkansas and Sara Habersmith of Orlando, Florida. Her siblings, Robert (Valerie) Haber, of Birmingham, Michigan and her sister, Heidi, of Sarasota, Florida. As well as loving nieces, nephews and friends.

Sue was born and raised in Allen Park, Michigan, before chasing the sunshine and moving to Florida in 2007. Her nickname "Suze Sunshine" was always fitting, even through her struggle with cancer, she had a positive and bright outlook and genuinely loved life.

In her spare time, you could often catch Sue watching HGTV, practicing yoga or hopping on a plane to visit her favorite places, Sedona & Asheville. She always found ways to give back to others and truly had a heart of gold. Sue will be missed greatly by her dear friends & family, but we know she has been reunited with her loved ones in heaven and is watching over those who loved her.

Carole Joy Berkowitz, 80, passed away on October 9, 2020, after a short and courageous battle with metastatic breast cancer. She was the beloved lifetime companion of Michael Nastacio for 30 years.
Carole was born in Brooklyn, New York on February 18, 1940 to the late Benjamin and Annette Berkowitz. She spent her early life in Brooklyn, she moved to California for a few years and finally settled in New York City. Carole had an established career in property management, where she managed some of the largest buildings in New York City.

Carole was first diagnosed with breast cancer about 10 years ago. She took the diagnosis head on, had a mastectomy, treatment and went on to live her life, cancer free for many years. She took her health seriously, was never late on her mammography or exams. Unfortunately, the cancer returned with a vengeance. Carole started to feel ill in February 2020, but due to COVID-19 and the city being shut down, Carole was unable to get medical care. Finally, in late June 2020, Carole found a doctor that was willing to see her. The results were devastating. She had metastatic breast cancer and the cancer spread to her liver. Carole was determined to fight this disease. She immediately began chemo and fought like hell. Carole passed away peacefully with Mike by her side.

She was a loving partner and dear friend to many. She will be missed dearly.

Jan Ellen Singleton, age 67, of Grove City, passed away Sunday, May 9, 2021, after a short but courageous battle against breast cancer. Jan was born on July 12, 1953, in Columbus to William A. and the late Jean Marlyn England. Jan was a lifelong resident of Grove City and graduated from Grove City High School in 1970. She was a lifelong member of St. John’s Lutheran Church, where she was active in the handbell choir for many years. Jan was a kind, selfless spirit who always put others first. She was hard-working and a perfectionist in everything she did. Jan was a self-taught musician who could play several instruments, including the viola, piano, and flute. Above all else, she loved her family and her pets and lived life to the fullest.

Carmen Hale (Morency), age 38, of Hudson, passed away peacefully on Thursday, April 22 following a long and courageous battle with Metastatic Breast Cancer (MBC). She was married to Brian, the love of her life, and mom to Sophia Irwin. Carmen worked as an Executive Assistant until her illness forced her to retire. She was an accomplished painter and photographer, enjoyed other creative arts and gift giving. Carmen was a world traveler, especially taking many trips to Disney World, most recently one that the whole family enjoyed with her. Her annual trip to the family cottages on Long Island, ME was a highlight of the summer for her as a child and especially as an adult.
An avid supporter in the MBC Community, Carmen was honored by a few different groups around the country. She was also invited to share her story at Fenway Park on Boston radio for a Jimmy Fund fundraiser with one of her Dana Farber doctors. Carmen's faith and hope enabled her to live life fully, shining above her circumstances; her grace, encouragement and generosity were inspiring and endeared her to countless people.
In addition to Brian and Sophia, she leaves her parents Paul & Dale Morency of Epsom, NH, her brother Ethan Morency and fiance Cassie Isabelle of Deerfield, NH, Brian’s parents Paul & Louise Hale of Hudson, MA, brother-in-law David and wife Ginny & their children Isaac, Annabelle, Clementine, & Felicity of Saucier, MS, friend and former husband Ryan Irwin of Burlington, MA and his family, all on the West Coast. She leaves behind many “Besties” and “Peaches”, some of her fond names for us all. She will be dearly missed. #stageivneedsmore, #domorestageiv, #dontignorestageiv.

On April 4, 2021, Colleen Kearney of Alexandria Virginia ,age 47, passed away after a three-year battle with metastatic breast cancer, supported by her many loving friends and family. She is survived by her parents Barry and Gail Kearney of Columbia Maryland, her brother Christopher of Lutz, Florida, and her beloved Havanese, Ollie. She was born in Buffalo New York and eventually moved to Columbia Maryland as a child with her parents.

She attended local schools and later graduated from American University with a double major in literature and music. Colleen is also a graduate of the University of Baltimore School of Law and was a member of the Florida Bar. Her interest in Intellectual Property Law led her to a career with the United States Patent and Trademark Office where she worked as a trademark examiner and ultimately an attorney in the Commissioners’ Office.

Colleen loved all kinds of music and was an accomplished bassoon player. She was a member of the Washington Conservatory Orchestra and her twice a year concerts were a delight to her family and friends.

Stephanie Amy Whitehead passed away February 4, 2021 after a 5 year battle with metastatic breast cancer.

Virginia “Ginny” Knust passed away on February 19, 2021 at the age of 68. Ginny was born August 13, 1952 in Nutley, NJ. She graduated in 1970 from Nutley High School and in 1974 from Glassboro State College.

In 1981, Ginny married her then-husband Frank Vanore and soon moved to Wall Township, NJ where they raised three daughters: Allison, Dana and Krista Vanore. Ginny supported her daughters in all of their endeavors including sports, homemade movies, music, and more.

In 2001, Ginny completed training at Somerset School of Massage Therapy and began her own business as a massage therapist, Massage with an Educated Touch in Brielle, NJ. She simultaneously worked at The Milagro Spa at The Atlantic Club in Manasquan, NJ. Ginny spent her career volunteering at local 5K runs and events, supporting other therapists, and gracing her clients & community with her healing touch.

Her friends knew her lovingly as Ginny, and her biggest fans (her grandkids) knew her as GG. She was a lover of life. She was exuberant, active, health conscious, fun, extremely caring and loyal. She loved the outdoors and going on walks with her family and friends. She was a healer, a lover of golf, good music, and a glass of wine. She was a whiz with a sewing needle (which supplied her children with many a homemade Halloween costumes over the years), and was a gardening enthusiast. She loved sunflowers, hummingbirds, a nicely vacuumed rug, and a good book. Ginny made life-long friends who she loved and treasured immensely.

Between 2007-09 Ginny fought and beat breast cancer. In 2019 she was again diagnosed with metastatic breast cancer. She fought valiantly until her passing in February 2021, just after meeting her fourth grandchild and namesake, Stella Virginia.

Ginny is survived by her daughters Allison Vanore, Dana Vanore, Krista Szoboszlay, son-in-laws Rob Gokee, Zack Gray, Ian Szoboszlay, grandchildren Jameson Gray, Ascher Gray, Piper Gray, Stella Szoboszlay, sisters Dr. Linda Knust, Valerie Knust, brother William Knust, sister-in-law Judith Knust, nieces Alicia Knust, Melissa Tauriello, Emily Knust, Holly Harriss, nephews Michael Tauriello, Marc Tauriello, Ryan Knust, and great-nieces Annika Traxler and Zoe Traxler. Ginny is predeceased by her parents Carol Knust, William Knust, sisters Shirley Knust, Ruth Tauriello, and brother-in-law Michael Tauriello.

In place of a traditional funeral service, a Celebration of Ginny’s Life will take place in the Spring. The family asks that donations be made in her name to METAvivor.

Sharon (Jerkins) Coulter lived a life full of faith, and on January 12, 2021 was finally cured from her cancer on this Earth. She persevered through many obstacles throughout the years. She was first diagnosed with Breast Cancer in 1998, and faced it head on. Her boys were 4 years old and 18 months at the time. She was determined to see them grow up, and she did. She was an educator for almost 30 years. She educated children and advocated for literacy in and out of the classroom.

Twenty years after her first diagnosis, she was diagnosed with Stage 4 Metastatic Breast Cancer. She praised God that she had been given so many years with her family, and continued to pray for more. She faced the battle courageously (as she did everything in her life), and with a spirit that we can all admire. She made it her mission to educate others about MBC, and advocate for funding and research. She made sure the city of Pascagoula participated in the Light Up for MBC campaign lighting the lighthouse in MBC colors.

Left to continue her legacy are her beloved husband of 36 years, Jerry Coulter; two amazing sons, Jonathan and Dillon, and daughter-in-law Brittany. She will also be loved and remembered by her siblings, nieces, nephews, family members, and friends.

Linda (Mercer) Hoffman, age 71, of Wisconsin Rapids, WI, succumbed to God’s will to join him on Wednesday, January 13, 2021. Linda was a country girl who loved flower gardening, garden trips with her sister and spending time with her family. Through the years her joy was in serving God through choir and worship teams.

Special blessings to her many sisters in Christ that have walked with her through her many years of cancer. Linda courageously fought breast cancer 25 years ago and then metastatic breast cancer for the last 5 years.

~ Our Beloved Kelly ~

Kelly Jo Valencia passed into the loving arms of Jesus on Friday, January 15, 2021. She was 61 years old. Her strength was beyond measure, only surpassed by her endless love for her children.

Kelly was born on June 29, 1959 in Encino, California. She was raised, oldest of five children, and spent her entire life in various parts of Southern California, most recently residing in Thousand Oaks since 2009.

Kelly obtained her Bachelors’ Degree in English and pursued a successful career in Finance, most recently as Chief Financial Officer. Her most cherished role was as mother to her beautiful daughters and adoring son. There was no greater “mother-bear” than Kelly. They were her heart, her life. In parallel she was a beloved grandmother, sister, daughter and auntie, deeply loved by her parents, siblings, grandchildren, nieces, nephews, cousins and extended family.

She was surrounded throughout life by treasured friends near and far, old and new, from all areas of life be it school, work, church or neighbors. Many of whom have carried from childhood to now. All of whom she loved and touched deeply.

Her Faith was her foundation. She loved our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ, and took refuge in him daily. Psalm 91:4. We take comfort in knowing we will see her again in Heaven.

Kelly is survived by her loving family, son Christopher Mark Bradley, 35, daughters Rebecca Chandler Valencia, 18, and Rachel Chandler Valencia, 16, grandchildren Taylor Ann Bradley, 9, Israel Micah Bradley, 5, and Isaiah Christopher Bradley, 3, her parents Donald Francis Chandler, 85, and Darlyne Ann Chandler, 82, and her siblings Tracy Lynne Chandler, 60, Lori Ann Chandler, 59, Joseph Howell Chandler, 53, and Michael Dirk Chandler, 51.

We love you and miss you dearly Kelly. The peace of Christ be with us all.

Our Dear Jennifer has left us.

I met Jennifer back in the 90s in a few of the local San Diego photography groups. Two of those groups were Professional Photographers of San Diego County (PPSDC) and Women in Creative Photography (WiCP). I had been a photographer for quite some time when Jen showed up on the scene. She was immediately a force to being reckoned with, creating masterpiece quality work artistically crafted from her mind and heart. She was always an inspiration to both WiCP and PPSDC members, helping us all to push our creative boundaries. Jennifer also gave her time and services graciously to causes that were dear to her. Women with breast cancer was one of those causes.

When I first got breast cancer myself, stage two in 1998 and 2000, and stage four in 2003 (given 6 months to live!), Jennifer was there, supporting me photographically, not just emotionally. She photographed me as not only a warrior, but also with my husband, capturing our raw emotions. Even though I was stage four in 2003, I did not have my mastectomy and radiation until 2008. I had travelled from Texas back to San Diego for the operation and radiation. I was in San Diego for over 3 months, and part of that time, I stayed with Jennifer and her kids. They took me in like I was family, and our time together was life changing forever.

In 2011, Jennifer herself wound up with breast cancer. It was early stages at first, but, like mine, 5 years later, it advanced to stage four (triple negative) in 2016. I was blessed to be able to travel back out to San Diego in 2016, not too long after her MBC diagnosis, and traveled up toward LA to spend a day with her. I shared what I had learned from my own path, hoping I could help her to live as I had been.

Jennifer continued to give time to her now BC sisters, while she herself began her own journey. She was always reading studies, doing her own research on procedures, chemo drugs, etc., trying to help us all. Again, a force to be reckoned with. In the end, this relentless disease of MBC took our dear Jennifer from us way too soon. She leaves behind her three amazing adult children, Austin, Madi, and Jack, her grandson, Max, and her dear sweet husband, John (aka Honey Bear), as well as many friends and family who will always keep her in their hearts.

Jennifer, we love you and miss you fiercely already! On behalf of Women In Creative Photography (of San Diego County), Your photography buddy, model, and MBC sister,
Deborah Savarese

Nov. 13, 1961 - Nov. 23, 2020 - Age 59

Anna Macalino Thompson, daughter of Richard and Jovita Thompson, age 42, was born February 8, 1978. She graduated from Balboa High School, SF, CA--Class of 1996. Anna excelled academically and continued her education at the UC Berkeley before obtaining her Master's degree in Social Work at San Francisco State University. Anna's career began her career counseling youth at the San Francisco County Adolescent/Youth Counselling Center and culminated in her exemplary work as an accomplished Social Worker with the Adult Protective Services department of the City and County of San Francisco before she medically retired in 2018.

Anna was diagnosed with Metastatic Breast Cancer sometime in 2018 but she continued to live on her own terms. She courageously fought the disease for several years; overcoming the pain only other cancer thrivers can fully appreciate, with an immeasurable dignity and grace that has guided Anna all her life.

Anna was a sports enthusiast. Along with playing countless sports—volleyball, basketball, track & field, and softball in high school, she enjoyed cheering on all of her home teams and shared her big love for the San Francisco Giants, San Francisco 49ers, and Golden State Warriors attending games with family and friends anytime she could. Anna loved spending quality time with her family and friends, travelling, and enjoying good food.

Anna took a trip to Costa Rica in 2018, where she adopted the motto "pura vida" or "pure life" as a reminder to live positively and enjoy the happy times to the fullest. Anna taught us that no matter what battles we face, we can always find a reason to smile through them.

Anna's thoughtfulness, kindness, and loving ways brought joy to everyone's heart. Her concern for others was foremost before her own. She's well-loved by everyone and will be deeply missed.

Anna is survived by parents: Richard Sr. and Jovita Thompson, and siblings: Charlotte, Richard Jr., Michael, Matthew, and Elizabeth, and will be especially remembered and greatly missed by her nieces and nephews: Christopher, Stephen, Mark, Louis, Bruce, Joshua, Madison, Penelope, Malachi, and cousin, Gemma. Predeceased by her sister Jacqueline Macalino Thompson.

Molly passed on November 24, 2020. Due to COVID-19, it is hoped that a Celebration of Life can be held sometime in June, 2021.

Alice Lorraine Moye, 64, of Bainbridge Island, Washington, and Florida. A teacher and mother to many. Born on a rainy spring day in 1956 in Miami, Florida, she lived a life devoted to children, and to her friends. She battled breast cancer for over thirteen years and repeatedly emerged victorious, enriching the lives of friends old and new. She enjoyed so much — reading, cooking, walks, days at the beach, spoiling her grandchildren, and always offering a patient and loving ear to her children.

Predeceased by her loving husband Lynn Moye. Alice is survived by daughters Kelley Huffines, Olivia Moye, and Connie Tobin; son Lance Moye; and grandchildren Alexa Sarson, Jacob Sarson, Milo Huffines, Riley Tobin, Wren Huffines, and Isobel Tobin. She leaves behind a legacy of love, kindness, patience, and absolute grit.

Due to travel restrictions her memorial service will be delayed. The family asks that you celebrate Alice's life by sharing a memory on her memorial page.

In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to Alice's favorite organization -- Arms Around Bainbridge. http://www.armsaroundbainbridge.org

The earth is dimmer and the heavens are brighter, she will be so deeply missed.

Cheryl Kay (Finnell) Yavornitzki squeezed a century of life and loving into her too-short 63 years. Despite a cancer diagnosis 20 years ago when she was 41, Cheryl wrung out two extra decades with her family by enduring countless treatments with incredible grit and grace. We hope the clinical trials she endured — and the money to fund them, raised by organizations like METAvivor — will allow many other people to live longer with metastatic breast cancer.

Cheryl was surrounded by her husband, two daughters and four grandchildren at home when she finished her race and went to be with the Lord the Saturday after Thanksgiving, Nov. 28, 2020.

Cheryl was known for her larger-than-life capacity, endless energy and unshakable joy and optimism. She was a picture of the Col. 3:23 mandate to, in "whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord." Whether spoiling her grandkids, serving as a key witness in a lawsuit at work or finishing an ambitious woodworking or remodeling project, Cheryl exhausted herself and her resources to do the job well.

Diane Patricia Drange died at her home November 9, 2020 in Rosemead, Calif., from metastatic breast cancer. She was 55.

Diane was born April 5, 1965 to Clifford and Joan Ware. She discovered her love of music as a child, playing the piano and singing. Diane was an avid reader, the proud owner of countless library cards and loved gardening in her backyard, but her pride and joy was her family.

Diane graduated from Rosemead High. She studied music at Pasadena City College and California State University, Los Angeles, where she received a Bachelor of Arts degree in Vocal Performance. She met Michael Drange during class one afternoon at CSULA; they wed in 1992 at Christ Lutheran Church in Chino, Calif.

Diane worked as a waitress to support herself and her oldest son. She survived congestive heart failure following the birth of her twin boys, happily living another 26 “bonus years,” spending most of them raising her three sons. She also worked in the Garvey School District as a music teacher and librarian, and later as office manager for the Garvey Education Association.

Diane performed as a singer throughout her life and was a prized member of the church choir. She enjoyed listening to music with her husband and driving aimlessly together throughout the San Gabriel Valley. Friends and colleagues recall Diane’s infectious giggle and ability to put those around her at ease. She’s remembered by her children and nieces and nephews as a pun aficionado and selfless mother. Indeed, Diane loved nothing more than to brag about her sons.

Diane was predeceased by her parents and her son, Aaron Joseph Drange. She is survived by her husband, Michael, and her sons Matthew and Phillip, as well as sisters Theresa and Linda and brothers Stephen and Thomas.

Jeff Tesch 58 was born 9/15/62 to Richard and Jolene Tesch in Spencer, IA. Jeff was married for 24 years to his wife LeeAnn.. He had one son and one step son and 9 grandchildren which he loved and adored. Jeff passed away on 10/24/20 after a fighting a courageous 8 month battle of Stage 4 MBC.

Family was very important to Jeff. He loved to tell his grandchildren that his favorite was the youngest. “They did want money or shopping”

Jeff worked for KC Wood Products for 24 years. He enjoyed spending time with his friends and family. Slot Car Racing was his favorite hobby.

He will be missed greatly by everyone he encountered in life.

Wendy Willson Buckley died peacefully at her home on October 13, 2020. She had bravely and optimistically faced stage-four breast cancer everyday for twelve years, never giving cancer power over her life. She was a strong, faithful witness bringing hope to countless others. Family and friends surrounded her in her last days with love, prayers and support. Wendy was ready to be with Jesus and to be reunited with her daddy and grandma in heaven. We rejoice that she is freely running and smiling through the eternal fields of Heaven, most certainly with heavenly dogs by her side!

Wendy was born on March 24, 1960, in Albany, New York. Her family moved to Oklahoma City in 1963 and to San Antonio in 1968. Wendy graduated from Churchill HS, attended college at San Antonio College and graduated from St Mary’s University Interior Design Program. Wendy loved creating beautiful things for others. Her creativity led to the creation of her own business, Flooring and Window Designs.

Prior to marrying her husband, Steve, Wendy was involved with Youth and Single’s Ministry with the Presbyterian Church at both Mo Ranch and Montreat retreat centers. Her most cher-ished hobby was helping her dad raise, train and show German Shepherds. Her love for dogs was enormous!

Wendy and Steve married on May 12, 2001, at Mo Ranch. They met in high school. Both families lived near each other and attended San Pedro Presbyterian Church. After they married, they became members of Concordia Lutheran Church.

Wendy was the “Queen of Research” when it came to taking care of herself with cancer. It was her tenacity and optimism that helped her survive as long as she did. She encouraged many others walking similar journeys and never looked at her cancer with pity. For her, it was an opportunity to show her faith to others, and that she did with amazing grace.

She is predeceased by her father, Fred Willson, and is survived by her husband, Steven Buck-ley; mother, Jean Willson Dennis (Lee) ; sisters, Cathy Monkman (Jim) and Connie Tope; her adored step-daughter, Kristin Rivera (Andres); her beloved niece, Erin Duffy (Brian), and nephews Brian (Elise), Brad (Annie) and Eric (Abi) Cunningham; her precious great-nieces Emmalyn, Libby, Elizabeth, and Maya; and great nephew Asher; her beloved God-son, Truman Rivera; Steven’s extended family; and so many dear friends.

Helen Marie Cotton was born August 8, 1952, to Charles (Chuck) and Mary (Jones) Cotton in San Francisco, and she grew up in Texas while Chuck was stationed at Fort Hood with the U.S. Army. She was a daddy’s girl and the oldest of her five siblings, who she doted on. She loved to dress-up her sisters, by making their clothes and doing their hair. Helen also had an early love for bikes, and motorcycles eventually brought her to California (full of legendary stories.) She became the first female cook at the Fairview State Hospital in Costa Mesa.

Helen always had a calling as a caretaker, and she spent many years caring for her parents after they suffered strokes. She also took care of most of her sisters, brothers, nieces and nephews at one point or another, as well as her grandnieces and grandnephews. Whether that be making sure her nephew Tyler got to school on time or helping her sister Frances (who was single at the time with two children) move to Colorado and get settled, Helen was always there with open arms and an open door no matter her means. Her sister Charlene captured it best: “When Helen says I love you more, she really means it.”

Helen had an incredible ability to overcome the hardest of challenges. She battled cancer once before and kicked its ass about 15 years ago. She’s also had to fight against several other ailments in her later years. In 2018, she was displaced by the Camp Fire and the loss of a 28-year-relationship with her partner. She relocated to North Carolina to be with family, but then encountered another major challenge: The loss of her right leg. But she persevered – disabled and alone in a new place, Helen ended up finding one of her greatest joys: The love and community of Imprint Church and her dear friend Miss Holly, who was “more like a daughter to me than a friend.”

The faith and friendship she discovered from this community helped to give her the strength, hope & comfort she needed these last few months, after a surprise, terminal cancer diagnosis in July 2020. Following her diagnosis, she came to Pueblo West, Colorado, to be cared for by her sister Frances and her husband Greg. One of Helen’s last wishes was for her brothers and sisters to be okay; her siblings and nieces/nephews rallied to Pueblo to surround her with love these last two months, and it’s here that she passed away at home with family by her side on the morning on October 3, 2020. After a lifetime of overcoming challenges and loving us more, the biggest legacy she leaves us with is her heart.

Helen was preceded in death by her parents, and is survived by a large family who loved her: her siblings Rodney (Elizabeth) Lambert, Charlene (Michael) Baltierra, Frances (Greg) Heninger, Rosemary Cotton, Fred (Kathy) Cotton; her nieces & nephews Charles (Janet) Bagley, Julia Thornton, Crysta Bagley, John Thornton, Deanna Dutton, Tyler Quintard, Anthony Heninger, Lyndsey (Justin) Martinez & Marcus Heninger; and many grandnieces & grandnephews.